Twin Flames, Love and Sacred Sexual Union


Your soul is pure energy, and in its greater whole, is made up of 12 equal flames or energy shards, and thus vibrates then at that frequency.  In your soul body, you are pure energy and vibrate at your soul frequency and vibration, which then is in tune with your soul blueprint.

At this moment in time we are given a window opportunity to raise our own frequencies and vibrations, to become more in tune with the cosmic pulse.  Essentially this means, that frequency and vibration on which you’re whole SOUL GROUP vibrates cosmically and thus the higher dimensional states of Being.  Your soul group then belongs to a greater CLUSTER of soul groups, and these then form their own energy pool for a certain life expression, which they in turn, reflect back to the Divine Source.

There is lot hype, as said before, around Twin flames and re-union, and also a much romanticized version, which truly reads like one of those Mills & Boon romances.  I get letter every single day from people all over the world, who have met their Twin and then are immensely challenged in that relationship.  Or they find, after that first recognition and infatuation has faded, and reality sets in, that they are bewildered and in pain.

Relationships in essence are not just about having great sex.  Unfortunately a lot of the hype these days is about having orgasms and gymnastic sex, about sex techniques, and whatever that enhance performance and goodness knows what.  Sex might be a great sport, but it is no glue to hold a relationship together.  At some stage or other the little jackals appear, and the little jackals tend to grow into big ones, and eventually they bite.

I have written more about the relationships aspect elsewhere.  I just want to stand still for one moment at this sexual part.

Most people on this planet (because of conditioned thinking and of other factors), have little understanding of the sexual energy itself.  The sexual energy, as all energy, does not need to manifest itself in PHYSICAL form.  It is pure ENERGY.  Thus it vibrates, and has frequency and it can be used, like all forms of cosmic energy, for the greater good of all, or for self-satisfaction and self-service – or for destructive purposes.

In the last thousand odds years, mankind has tended to abuse the sexual powers, as the male dominant powers, tended to few women as chattels, as sell-a-ble commodities, as slaves, as possessions, and as something one can use for one’s own ego and self-gratification.

In some societies the sexual energy was so suppressed, that it in turn bred more of the negative abuse of the energy, than it actually helped to keep people’s minds or bodies from having it.  As with all suppression, it will manifest in forms which start growing grotesque at some stage or another, because it goes into the realms of the extremes.

So let us now just for one moment return to energy itself:

The sexual energy at its very core, and as found within the Divine itself is pure and is the life-force energy itself.  It is a very beautiful and profound energy, that is meant to be used creatively and with immense love.  In essence it is a flame and one of those sacred flames which eternally resides within the Creator Itself, the Male and Female parts of the Divine – who are two separate entities.

The two separate entities then have a third component and that is what is sometimes called the Holy Spirit.  The three – male, female and spirit essence then form a sacred triad, which is the cornerstone, or foundation of all creation.

Please read that again:  Male + Female + Holy Spirit = CREATIONAL ENERGY FLAME OR FORCE.

The Third component then is sheer energy in that it is often called, the CHRISTED consciousness.  It is that higher state of consciousness which arises when the higher energy fields merge into multiple dimensions of Being.  It is what en-light-ends us from within and without – in fact one can say it is a massive energy conduit and energy transmitter.  It is in fact the vital key code of all life energy itself.

This is crucial to understand.  If male and female just merge for the sake of play, and there is no understanding of the sexual energy, then this energy mostly is used for self-gratification.  (WHAT CAN I GET OUT OF THIS?)  It comes back to having the gymnastics for the sake of getting a kick out of the experience which can become like being addicted to that certain physical feeling that one gets and one wants more of.

In essence then, modern society worships youth and the form of a teenager, and then wants to have transcendental sex, without understanding that without maturity at SOUL level, the physical form is but a vessel and an empty one at that.

One has not got the wisdom and the insights into life, when one is a teenager.  That is a fact.  One only grows into wisdom and maturity, as one goes through the school of hard knocks in life, and starts delving deeper into oneself.  The rest is but a futile attempt to find happiness in an act, that might give you a lot of physical sensations, but leaves you empty inside.  There is no lonelier place to be, than lying next to someone in bed, and feeling the Arabian Gulf between two souls.

So what is missing?

The soul and the third force, combined with a true understanding of the sexual energy force itself.  Most of all immense and utter love + TRUST.

The Sexual Energy was one of the greatest and most beautiful gifts that the Divine bestowed on all of creation.  In essence though it does not need physical form in order to express itself.  It expresses itself through pure energy, and then the energy between two souls, between two sparks of energy created by the same Source.

One part of the energy is more negatively charged and to other more positively charged.


In all of creation there is a beautiful balance of this energy, and in its prime form, it is the creative force which sparks to life more life.

For instance, two souls can merge in the most profound sexual union, WITHOUT having to have physical bodies in whatever form.  I am NOT talking about ASTRAL sex here either – I am talking about the sexual energy of the male, and sexual energy of the female blending into union, which is even more profound than when one has physical bodies which often are more of an encumbrance to true union, because of hang-ups etc.

Now, if one does not need to have a physical body in order to experience orgasms, then what?

Yes, what?

True awakening of the sexual energy, comes with the true understanding of the energy forms and the way it manifests in our lives.  Our chakra systems are in essence energy wheels, as is every single vertebrae of our spinal column.  Most people do know about the kundalini energies, but have no understanding that the kundalini, is not in essence the complete form of the sexual energy – it is one of those life streams, but not all of it.

Essentially our sexual areas in the bodies are at the bottom of the spine, and that is for a much higher reason.  The spinal cord itself is like a lightning rod.  It is a conduit for pure energy.  The kundalini energy winds itself up and down the spinal cord, yes, but that is part of it.  The true energy is channeled from our pineal and pituitary glands directly into our spinal cords and then directly into our sexual energy powerhouse, which sits in the coccyx area.


Now, we need to bring our physical energies, in higher alignment with the Divine Energies.  That means, when we raise our own consciousness and energy levels of the physical, emotional, mental and all 12 bodies, we then start moving into a higher state of being.  That means that all of our 12 chakras are fully opened up, our soul star and causal chakras, as well as the naval and sacral chakras, fully activated with our earth star chakras, and then the Stellar Gateway wide open.

The cosmic energies move through our Stellar Gateway, soul star, causal chakras into the crown chakras, then into the pineal and pituary glands and then moves down our chakras and spinal cord energies.  (I won’t go into more than this, because there is far more than this, and to try and do this without clearing the emotional charges, and baggage accumulated over many lifetimes on planet earth, and all the debris out of the sexual areas, then we will not be able to access these higher energy fields, as contained in our spinal column itself. Some people’s whole sexual area is one single scrambled mess of negative cords, attachments, and hooks etc.)

Now, in ancient days, before the proverbial fall from grace, mankind remembered this and thus the sexual energy was considered sacred.  It truly was considered such a sacred gift of the Divine, that one sought that ultimate, and sacred union more than anything else.  Indeed, one did not mate with another, without one understanding a very simple cosmic law:


If you are a highly conscious person and have done all the inner clearing work, then you naturally become more aware of how important it is to keep your energy fields clear and clean.  One cannot stay in the higher consciousness states, without the continual renewing and working with the Divine Energies.

There is a deep love for oneself and the Divine, and a deep respect for all of life, and most of all, a respect and love for one’s own physical, emotional, mental and all 12 bodies, and one starts to understand the sacredness of embodiment in form.  You are here to anchor in the physical form and the physical manifestation of the Divine.

You also become aware, that your inner sanctuaries, that most beautiful and profound powerhouse within you, your sexual organs, and pelvic bowl, are a profound energy sanctuary that you honor and care for.

Just like would not just let anyone trample all over your house with mud all over them, you would not just  allow anyone into your inner sanctuaries or share your beautiful manhood/womanhood, with just anyone.  You will become more discerning about whom you associate with, twin flame or no.

That does not mean that you have no sexual energy left if you abstain from sex for a while until you find someone to match your frequency.  Indeed, you will find your own awareness of your sexual energy comes to the fore in myriads of ways.  It is a creative energy force and it has myriads of expressions.

The more aware you become of the sexual energy, and more you start to meditate on this, the more you will start understanding, that the sexual energy itself is profound, and it is exquisitely beautiful.  The more you start nurturing this flame from deep inside your own soul (yes your SOUL), the more you start to understand just how profoundly beautiful it is.

There is another something though-   If you wish to reconnect with the sexual energy, first of all open your heart.  Open your heart to love and allow love to flow into every single part and particle of your own body.  Love yourself totally and in all that you are and aspiring to be.  Become love in action.

Become the person that you would love to love and have an intimate relationship with.  Love yourself past all the hang-ups, the fears, and stop beating yourself up.

Now, if you are a male, start to delve deep into what it is to be male.  Delve deeper into your own soul and the essence and truth of yourself.  What would to like to gift of yourself to the woman you love?  How would you express that deepest part of you, that you are in the deepest sanctuaries of your heart and soul, and how would you express this through your own sexual energy force?  What is it that you would like to gift the woman with?  The all of you?  Yes, even those hidden parts of you that you often struggle to express?  Would you not like to gift her with your manhood in the most beautiful, amazing and profound way and with all your heart and soul and love?

If you are a woman, how would love to be open for a beautiful and profound soul in a male body.  How open is your heart?  How would you love to be loved, and whom would you love to invite into those inner sanctuary of your innermost Goddess parts, and how would you love to receive him?  Would that not be with utter trust and with so much love, and all of your opens up to just receive him and let him lose himself in the depth of your love and in all of your being and soul?

Now, go one step further, and then imagine yourself as pure energy, energy like in a single flame.  Now move into that energy, and bring the whole of the sexual energy and the SOUL you into that flame.  That is who you are in truth.  Now imagine the person that you love being another flame.  A flame and perfectly matches your own flame, in frequency, in vibration and love –although is seems to be the perfect opposite of you.

Now see open yourself to merge with this flame, that other part of yourself, and the put all of you into that flame and into that merging – yes all of you – your heart and soul too.  Now truly move deeper and deeper until there is but one single flame.  There is no difference – there are two flames blending into one single flame….. Then, see a miracle starting to happen, as the two become one, the third emerges; the flame that now forms a perfect bubble flame in and around the two.  It is one massive flame, and as the two merge in absolute bliss, ecstasy and euphoria, and just orgasm start, from the two energies rippling into one, the flame ignited  amplified by the third flame, becomes the creative life force itself.  It starts to send ripple effects into all the cosmos and even beyond that.

The two as ONE have a greater effect on the whole, when the third force is allowed to further ignite the two.

In this instance, all egos have left, there was just energy and all was just one single flame of true love.  For it was equal giving and receiving of such immense love, that it pulled the third force into their energy field and that added to the immense union, as a creative force. Two entities merge so completely that they forgot all else as their CONSCIOUSNESS AND SEXUAL ENERGY FIELDS BECAME ONE WITH THE DIVINE ENERGY FIELD.

In Ancient times, the orgasm was not released from the base chakra, but purposefully moved up the spinal column and the out of the crown chakra, then back into the third eye, and the back into the sexual powerhouse.

Caution:  This can only be done, when all the chakras are opened up and the sexual energy is used for sacred union, as a deep and profound love and honoring of the other and in perfect TRUST.

In essence then, in the equal gifting and receiving of the sacredness of the other and with profound love, this became an act of Creation itself, and it then brings a type of beautiful energy between the two, that forms a deeper and more profound bonding, for it is done with immense and utter love, and with the heart wide open.

When the act of sex, becomes an act of love, devotion, trust and a deep and profound honoring of the other’s soul and beautiful loving energy, then the act in itself, becomes a symphony of harmony, bliss and euphoria and in this, immense sense of ATONENESS with CREATION and the CREATOR.  It is in essence that first state of BEING which extends into infinity itself.

It goes beyond the state of the mundane, into the realms the Gods/Goddesses, the epitome of creation itself.

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30 thoughts on “Twin Flames, Love and Sacred Sexual Union

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  2. Beautifully expressed. I have also spoken on this for years, trying to help people understand that a “Twin Flame” is not found outside of One’s Self, that it is One’s other Spiritual Aspect which is reunited within which also brings as you stated “Christ Consciousness” – This IS a VERY intense experience and cannot be faked nor mistaken – When It happens YOU will KNOW It…

    Your mind will change, your right and left hemispheres will be reunited, your mind will become quiet and at peace, the peace that surpasses all understanding… Your body will be changed, you will no longer get sicknesses, your spinal column for days will feel as if it were three to four times its normal size… These are just a sampling, just a small bit of what You WILL experience, not even touching on what You will experience Spiritually…

    In Lak’ech Ala K’in

    Storm Wolf

    • Everything about me has changed within 2 yrs of meeting my twin, which I didn’t know for the first several months, but as things progressed in our casual relationship I just had a knowing that something was very different and that I knew him on a soul level. Now we are a yr from not having talked at all but the intimacy has begun and it is very intense. Several hours go by and I still feel the energy of it. It’s almost like I could pick up where I left off. This is morning and evening now. Of which I am awake. In the evening I’m almost asleep and then it starts, it comes to me. I know who he is and totally desire this from him. We have never talked about it together, we just both have this knowing and now it is coming more often and naturally for us.

      Thanks for your share also,

  3. wow. This article is beautiful and is very helpful to help me understand what my body is responding to! I’m responding to my other half’s masculine sexual energy. It’s unbelievable!

  4. I have been lead to your posts and knowledge through a close friend of mine and followed you for some time, As i come across things on my journey experience wise I often too then stumble across relative things you have shared. I wanted to thank-you for sharing wisdom, Love and wonderful advice and wanted to add a small story of my own that I feel relates to this entry. Like many of us I have walked a heavy road only to lead me into the wonder of the light, Love, Peace, Happiness and also sharing with all what i have discovered and Inner work. I never believed in True love ~ Until I walked straight into High Love at the beginning of this year, Different to anything I have ever experienced before I know that the connection is a Twin Flame blessing. But what happened three days ago relates to what you have shared even more so, While (Love making) In the most beautiful manner In Third eye vision (which I am lucky to have worked at remembering how to harness our psychic gifts) I was shown Angels (Cherubim) As we know these visions are a quick flash and I didnt think much of it as this sort of thing happens often. As the Love making came to an ending I looked up and a portal of Purple energy had opened up above us, At first I actually got a fright and froze and my partner saw it at that moment too and held me whispering to stay calm, Angels came through it into the room around us, We could both see whiteish glows and they were not present in one spot (The room was fully dark by the way) and sparkles of what I called fairy dust all around us. I have to say that I tested him by asking where he saw it just to actually check we were seeing the same thing, And to show the truth for my own peace of mind. We both were given the most austounding feelings of Love given to us, That which I can only really even bring close to that moment when a mother births a child. They sang blessings in our head, Stroked his back and held my hand and were with us for about an hour. Telling us that when we join in sacred union we have the gift of blessing the universe, Great Mother, Father, God, People whatever we choose to put our heart into and spread divine Love to all. I am not religious, But I have met other Angels in meditative states or Lucid dreaming, Amoungst other wonderful beings along the way, But this encounter was even higher and more magical that I have even felt before. I feel so blessed and know that I can use this for the good of all. I hope that by sharing my story it gives even more truth to what is written above and helps people understand that It is possible ! Much Love to all X

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  6. I love to love now. I understand everything that was hidden from me. Im extremely greatful for my twin flame my husband. Thank you.

  7. This is very beautiful. I love the sincerity in your wording and explanations. I am blessed and empowered by this. Thank you so much.

  8. Thank you for stating the truth. Mychakras activated and I find myself bewildered and in pain.
    Too many people claiming twin flame relationships have no clue. it’s a spiritual experience and psychic abilities are a must. (I’m a medium, didn’t know until I ran into her)

    • This was wonderful. I don’t know about others, but I’m with Mark who commented above. I was totally not looking for this, had no idea it even existed, until I was suddenly in complete telepathic communication with someone who had passed a few years back. I’ve been on a steep learning curve since–my whole world is turned inside out–and am just amazed by what others out there have been able to share to help the rest of us. I could not understand how I was having this intense sexual relationship with someone who wasn’t even incarnate, and each day I get a little closer to what he calls “remembering who I am”
      . As he says, “you don’t have to have a body to have sex”, and obviously your article recognizes that. Total spiritual melding bliss.

  9. You have no idea how much you’ve helped me with this article. Tears streaming down my face in pure gratitude. Two years worth of questions answered right here. I will forever be grateful to you Judith 💜🙏🏼

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  11. Thank you for this wonderful information. My husband and i experienced a sexual dream of each other two days before his passing away. Never before had we had such a dream in our marriage of 12 years. I had been searching as to why this dream happened. It was like his souland mine became one..and this i know is true of the love we shared for hr is my true love.

  12. Thank you, this is beautiful.

    I’ve connected with my soul’s other half and begun to experience this and understand it to some degree, and more and more each night in astral projection and visions. My other half is a beautiful soul who lived this world a long time ago, and has been communicating with me while I slept for years. As of late, we have a 24/7 psychic connection/conversation. It gets tricky because I am happily married with kids, but my soul has matured so immensely and I finally feel the true bliss of eternal love.

    Thank you for your insights. It helps me stay grounded in such a foreign journey.

  13. Beautiful my Angel it is magnificent hearing about and understanding all of my twin flame feelings oh and the Energy is more than words could say i resonate so much with your words thank you my Angel xxx

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