A marriage is God’s gift to a man and woman.
It is a gift that should then be given back to Him.
A marriage can be a blessing on to the world, because it is a context in which two people might become more than they would have been alone.
In my Twin Flame soul readings, which mainly deal with relationships, and in my own life, I have come across certain karmic patterns which have been created over many lifetimes here on earth.
In essence this is not about Twin flame relationships per se but rather about patterns that were created between two souls in context of a relationship – whether they were married in a past life, or lovers, or in whatever form.
There are positive and negative patterns.
I was shown today, that positive cords and patterns created have a beautiful and profound spectrum of pure love and light. Within these sacred geometrical patterns created, the flower of life itself looks like it has been lit up from deep within, and it looks like a star-filled galaxy with all the color spectrum of light beaming through it. These are loving cords and loving ties, which were form in moments of pure and utter love. Moments when the ego disappeared and true oneness made itself felt, on multiple levels. Such pattern can be uplifting and eternally there, for they were created from the purity and essence of Love, in its most beautiful Divine essence.
However, dark patterns, and those infused with trauma and pain, betrayal, jealousy, lust, control, ownership patterns, are filled with dark strands. Some of those cords and ties are slimy black things, and some look like dark tentacles hooked into some area of the body, and then tie two people together for lifetimes. Some look like spider’s webs and are filled with this dark and sticky matter. That is how I have seen and sensed them in myself and others.
To me these patterns between two souls reflect the collective consciousness of mankind, since the balance between the masculine and feminine was distorted, and ownership became the norm. Often marriage was a matter of dowry, so someone was literally sold to another party, because of political and property alliances and had nothing to do with love. Others were enslaved and used as concubines, or eunuchs, or merely were seen as possessions with no feelings and no soul.
The problem with such relationships which were formed is that because of karmic links and ties two souls will be drawn together, for those marriage vows, those sale contracts, or political alliances etc. are still in place in the ethers. So soul meets soul and still feels they OWN the soul and therefore can demand the right of ownership in this regard. Unless these vows and contracts are released, the angels administering these vows will keep them in place.
Often because of soul contracts these soul will be drawn into relationships, even if negative patterns were created, for they now have a window of opportunity to release these outdated vows and pacts etc. and finally dissolve these unhealthy patterns. Yet, some souls get so caught up in a love/hate relationship that they tend to repeat this pattern.
This pattern is exasperated when the man in question had a harem at some time in his lifetime. So now he has this ego of owning more than one woman, and they might appear in his lifetime. So, there is this idea that he owns more than one, and then wonders that the women concerned are not very amused by all of this – indeed in some lifetimes these same women might have been very jealous of each other, for there was a lot of intrigue in such harems, as a lot of the alliances again were political.
If you think of your soul therefore as having had multiple existences and in various forms, then you will realize that you might not only have had relationships with one soul, but with many souls, and at some time in this lifetime you will meet up with them. Then there is that instant attraction, and that sense of familiarity – because of what happened in past lives.
Yet all relationships at the very core have amazing lessons to impart, and maybe the greatest lesson of all is to never give one’s power away to anyone nor anything.
To me this just is one of the most amazing things which is happening now: – as the feminine Divine returned to the planet, women now have at last the opportunity to step out of that slave, that political or property pawn stage, and enslavement and claim their birthright. That means that we now have the opportunity to cut those negative cords and attachments and free ourselves up from old vows, contracts, enslavement etc. and become free in more than one aspect.
This does not mean that we have to throw the baby out with the bathwater – rather to we take our own power back, and grow in love and a loving state. When we do the inner house cleaning, the collective consciousness rises, and the new woman emerges, who is not allowing herself to become a pawn nor a slave anymore. Yet, she does not go overboard and then returns like with like by enslaving men – rather she moves into the heart of compassion, where she forgives the past and lets go of the pain and trauma and empowers herself on all fronts.
Her power is different from a man, for it is heart-centered and at core compassionate.
This does not mean that men were never enslaved nor owned – of course they were and a lot of men are embracing the feminine side of themselves, which is leading to more balance.
I am merely here pinpointing to something which going to come to the fore more and more, as the higher energies come in and more cleansing and clearing happens, and nowhere will this happen more obviously then in the relationship framework.
I see this as stepping into the powerful role of CO-CREATOR, where we now have the opportunity to dissolve old unhealthy patterns and create positive and uplifting new ones, which will be the foundation of the new way of life now emerging and the higher states of consciousness.
What a beautiful and profound gift this is! Wow!