Karmic Links and Ties in Relationship Patterns

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A marriage is God’s gift to a man and woman.

It is a gift that should then be given back to Him.

A marriage can be a blessing on to the world, because it is a context in which two people might become more than they would have been alone.

(Marianne Williamson)

In my Twin Flame soul readings, which mainly deal with relationships, and in my own life, I have come across certain karmic patterns which have been created over many lifetimes here on earth.

In essence this is not about Twin flame relationships per se but rather about patterns that were created between two souls in context of a relationship – whether they were married in a past life, or lovers, or in whatever form.

There are positive and negative patterns.

I was shown today, that positive cords and patterns created have a beautiful and profound spectrum of pure love and light.  Within these sacred geometrical patterns created, the flower of life itself looks like it has been lit up from deep within, and it looks like a star-filled galaxy with all the color spectrum of light beaming through it.  These are loving cords and loving ties, which were form in moments of pure and utter love.  Moments when the ego disappeared and true oneness made itself felt, on multiple levels.  Such pattern can be uplifting and eternally there, for they were created from the purity and essence of Love, in its most beautiful Divine essence.

However, dark patterns, and those infused with trauma and pain, betrayal, jealousy, lust, control, ownership patterns, are filled with dark strands.  Some of those cords and ties are slimy black things, and some look like dark tentacles hooked into some area of the body, and then tie two people together for lifetimes.  Some look like spider’s webs and are filled with this dark and sticky matter.  That is how I have seen and sensed them in myself and others.

To me these patterns between two souls reflect the collective consciousness of mankind, since the balance between the masculine and feminine was distorted, and ownership became the norm.  Often marriage was a matter of dowry, so someone was literally sold to another party, because of political and property alliances and had nothing to do with love.  Others were enslaved and used as concubines, or eunuchs, or merely were seen as possessions with no feelings and no soul.

The problem with such relationships which were formed is that because of karmic links and ties two souls will be drawn together, for those marriage vows, those sale contracts, or political alliances etc. are still in place in the ethers.  So soul meets soul and still feels they OWN the soul and therefore can demand the right of ownership in this regard.  Unless these vows and contracts are released, the angels administering these vows will keep them in place.

Often because of soul contracts these soul will be drawn into relationships, even if negative patterns were created, for they now have a window of opportunity to release these outdated vows and pacts etc. and finally dissolve these unhealthy patterns.  Yet, some souls get so caught up in a love/hate relationship that they tend to repeat this pattern.

This pattern is exasperated when the man in question had a harem at some time in his lifetime.  So now he has this ego of owning more than one woman, and they might appear in his lifetime.  So, there is this idea that he owns more than one, and then wonders that the women concerned are not very amused by all of this – indeed in some lifetimes these same women might have been very jealous of each other, for there was a lot of intrigue in such harems, as a lot of the alliances again were political.

If you think of your soul therefore as having had multiple existences and in various forms, then you will realize that you might not only have had relationships with one soul, but with many souls, and at some time in this lifetime you will meet up with them.  Then there is that instant attraction, and that sense of familiarity – because of what happened in past lives.

Yet all relationships at the very core have amazing lessons to impart, and maybe the greatest lesson of all is to never give one’s power away to anyone nor anything.

To me this just is one of the most amazing things which is happening now: – as the feminine Divine returned to the planet, women now have at last the opportunity to step out of that slave, that political or property pawn stage, and enslavement and claim their birthright.  That means that we now have the opportunity to cut those negative cords and attachments and free ourselves up from old vows, contracts, enslavement etc. and become free in more than one aspect.

This does not mean that we have to throw the baby out with the bathwater – rather to we take our own power back, and grow in love and a loving state.  When we do the inner house cleaning, the collective consciousness rises, and the new woman emerges, who is not allowing herself to become a pawn nor a slave anymore.  Yet, she does not go overboard and then returns like with like by enslaving men – rather she moves into the heart of compassion, where she forgives the past and lets go of the pain and trauma and empowers herself on all fronts.

Her power is different from a man, for it is heart-centered and at core compassionate.

This does not mean that men were never enslaved nor owned – of course they were and a lot of men are embracing the feminine side of themselves, which is leading to more balance.

I am merely here pinpointing to something which going to come to the fore more and more, as the higher energies come in and more cleansing and clearing happens, and nowhere will this happen more obviously then in the relationship framework.

I see this as stepping into the powerful role of CO-CREATOR, where we now have the opportunity to dissolve old unhealthy patterns and create positive and uplifting new ones, which will be the foundation of the new way of life now emerging and the higher states of consciousness.

What a beautiful and profound gift this is!  Wow!

(Judith Kusel)

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Twin Flames – with specific reference to souls who were incarnated in to Mu and Lemuria

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Twin flames, is a term used for fractions of flames, within one single soul.  A soul is made up of 12 such flames, and only one single flame mostly incarnates onto this planet.

However, because of Mother Gaia wishing to ascend into the higher state of consciousness, as is the whole Milky Way Galaxy, a special dispensation from the Lords of Karma, allowed more than one flame to incarnate at this time, in order to clear old karmic debts, and karmic links, cords, attachments etc. and give them an opportunity to work through all of this, so that they could be purified and merge with each other.

Today I wish to concentrate on a unique group of thousands of souls, who incarnated at the time of Mu, or Lemuria.  These group of souls have specific karma to work through, which is uniquely their own, and is therefore not applicable to other twin flames, because of karma involved here.

At the time of Mu, or Lemuria, the world was in the 7th dimensional state.  Therefore life existed at a much higher frequency band and vibratory state.  The bodies were much lighter and thus life itself was totally different.

The souls who incarnated in Mu (I will for this purpose refer to Lemuria too as Mu, for they were the same civilization) were Androgynous Beings.  Thus male and female in one single body or earthly form and there was then harmony and bliss, and they knew no other lifestyle, nor any other form of being.  They were content and happy, and like innocent children in the sense, that they knew no difference in gender, as both were incorporated within themselves, and in perfect harmony with each other.  Yin and Yang balanced – thus pain and hurt, separation, in any form was unknown.

In the latter part of life on Mu, Atlantis was rising, as the 5th root race of man was brought into being on a massive island, in what is now the Atlantic.  As they were then partaking in the experiment which was Atlantis, life there was formed in the 5th dimensional state, and completely separate from Mu.  However, as the Atlanteans then started to make their presence felt, and interaction took place, the androgynous Mu’ans for the first time encountered the bodily forms of fellow earth citizens, and two distinctive genders.

This was not the first time they had ever encountered these forms, but they suddenly realized that the Atlanteans had something which they did not have – two separate genders, who could unite in sexual union and apparently this union brought some kind of bliss and energy which they Mu’ans thought they were losing out on.

After all – although they could have offspring they did not need to merge with anyone else, merely  a desire to bring forth another being like them-selves and it would happen.

In the history of mankind there were always those who would jump onto the band wagon, and decide to take matters in their own hands – even if this went against the Laws of creation and against what the Divine had perfectly created.  In this instance, the androgynous form.

There were then certain High Priests who decided that they would experiment and find a way of splitting the androgynous form into two forms – male and female, which they managed to do, after many of those who volunteered to be experimented upon died in the process.  So, they presented to the population of Mu, for the first time ever, the opportunity to experience life in two distinct forms, male and female  and have the sexual energy, which some so thought they had been cheated out of.

So, more and more the Mu’an population went to these temples to have themselves split into two separate bodies.

As, with all of creation, when you go against cosmic and Divine laws of creation, you will load karma onto yourself in some form or another and pay the price for the choices you made, willingly and knowingly.

As much as the first delight in having sexual intercourse was there, some of those who had the operation, felt intensely let down.  The sexual energy was not at all what they fantasized it to be (for some). For others it became addictive, as they did not have the rites of passage that the Atlanteans had before it was also corrupted, which helped people in Atlantis to understand the secret rites associated with the correct use of the sexual energies.

So the first time then, they one could merge in sexual union with as many other halves or other halves, as they wished to.  One could even have this with the Atlanteans – and some knew no bounds.  Of course this was bound to have repercussions.

Pain, anger and bewilderment started to arise for the first time ever in Mu, as two halves, found other halves more sexually interesting and entertaining than their own halves, and then separating more and more from their other half.  However, all of this created a deep sense of void.

That void, of feeling of intense loss started to haunt the souls who did split in Mu: they would henceforth intensely FEEL the PAIN of  the separation from their other half.

This more than any other, let to the downfall of the Mu civilization as for the first time infighting, anger, war and strive started to happen, and in such a war, Mu sank under the sea.

The souls then from Mu who separated have all more or less returned, to solve that sense of void, by having the opportunity to find that wholeness once more – that uniting with their other half – literally.

Some of these souls will have difficulty in defining their gender, for they will find that they are really both – male and female, which in truth they are!  Many who are homosexual have karmic ties with Mu, or come from galaxies with androgynous forms.

Some have had such dramas with their other halves over many lifetimes that a lot of that pain will have to be cleared away and dissolved before true union can happen.

So the shadow of Mu is lingering upon them, and this will be more so, for those souls who took this experiment upon themselves – knowingly breaking Divine cosmic law.

In essence then these souls will have to do a lot of cleansing and clearing within and dissolve karmic residue before true union will be possible.

On the other hand that meeting with the other half will trigger an immense sense of joy, an immense sense of belonging at first, before all the emotional baggage makes its appearance again.

I do want to add, that there are souls who have managed to do the inner work and who truly are merging as one being again.

It is all about free will and choice.

With merging comes the forging into one single androgynous being again and it is as this single entity that they will ascend into the higher states of consciousness, should this be their wish.

For Twin flame Soul Readings visit my  READINGS  page here, or http://www.judithkusel.com
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The Cosmic Dance of the Twin Flames

TwinFlames 4 Judithimages (33)The Cosmic dance of the Twins.
The soul itself is not bound by time and space, but lives eternally. It lives as sheer Light energy, which emits not only light, but sound and colours. It vibrates in harmony with the light frequencies and sound (tonal chord) frequency band of the soul group, or Over soul. This in essence is the I AM presence, which is present in all of us.
When the soul is fully activated, it has 12 distinct flames, and these flames then form part and particle of the 13th flame, which in essence is the flame of the Holy Spirit, or the flame of the Oversoul, as embodied in soul group spirit – that collective, which in turn forms part of the greater cosmic flame – the threefold flame, of LOVE, POWER, and WISDOM.
When we incarnate onto a very dense and hostile planet (and this is NOT Mother Earth who makes is so, but so who wish to control her for their own hidden agendas), the soul has amnesia. As a child we might remember something but the status quo soon tries to shut down our pineal and pituitary glands, so that we cannot receive cosmic transmission of Light from our soul group and the cosmic hierarchy and most importantly the Divine.
I am going into some detail here, so that you can understand that in essence you vibrate at a soul frequency (which is hidden in your soul name – by the way very different from any earthly name for it epitomizes the frequency band your soul vibrates on) and that when this frequency band is fully activated, someone who is not of that frequency band, will fall off the bus, so to speak. For a frequency band will only be able to sustain what is on the same frequency band, and when more or one tune into that same frequency band, then there is unity and harmony. Anything discordant to that, cannot exist there – it might disrupt the frequency band, but when it is fully activated and over-lighted by the collective soul group, and the Divine itself, it will automatically revert to its own frequency band.
You can think of this a radio…. When you tune into the frequency band of your favourite station, you might find disturbances, until you are tuned in a exactly the right frequency band and then you can hear properly and sound is not distorted.
In this lifetime all of us search for that ultimate in love and loving and we all dream of that ultimate happiness, the unity, that we, on soul level, and remember that state of harmony and bliss.
Our soul, in all its 12 flames or particles has had many lifetimes, in many forms and existences, and not only on this planet. For example: I know that a part of my own soul is pure light frequency. It vibrates at such a high frequency band that psychics have often told me that they cannot see form, but only streaks of pure Light. This part of me is attached to the Divine Source, and that is where is works in Temples of Halls of Wisdom, Higher Teaching, Healing and Records. This is one of the reasons that I can tap into the highest and purest soul records. Another part of me, is attached to the Andromedan and Galactic Core Federation, and very much that of the Pleiadean and that of Sirius. There are then different parts of me, working and living simultaneously, with this form of life I have chosen here on Planet Earth. In reality only a tiny fraction of me, has incarnated, the others are still elsewhere in the cosmic whole, working there.
In reality I am a cosmic Being, having a short sojourn here on Planet Earth and mainly to complete mission.
It has taken me while to understand this whole concept, and I am often asked about it, and that is why I am sharing this with you today – not to boast, but in all humbleness, so that you might have a greater understanding of the magnificence of your own soul.
On this planet we are deliberately withheld from the truth of our soul, our soul group and the Divine truths, which have been hijacked along the way and distorted. Until we start reconnecting to our own soul, and build our Lightbridge back to the Divine, activate our Stellar Gateways and our Soul Star chakras (which are huge transmitters and connect us to our own Divinity as held within our soul groups), we cannot be fully activated and empowered.
At this time, this planet is in a major state of revamping, and so is the collective whole. Some of the souls who have incarnated since after World War II are the same souls who were involved with this planet from the very beginning and have now returned to hold the Light steady and to anchor in highly advanced knowledge and understanding. They thus are here on a specific mission and for a specific and very specialized task. I call them the ILLUMINED TASKFORCE.
Some souls are VOLUNTEER souls, and come from other galaxies and star systems, which have never experienced war of any kind – not even the Wars of the Heavens. They came in with immensely powerful technological tools and higher healing abilities which will assist the planet to move from the third to the fifth dimensional state, and once that state is reached, their soul memory banks will get triggered (if not already) and they will be the ones who bring in the UNITY and the HOLISTIC ways to use the earth’s energies and cut out all the use of fossil fuel and will bring the planet back into balance and harmony. They are specialists too and I call them the VOLUNTEER TASKFORCE.
Others are from soul groups which have been involved with this planet for millennia and came here fleeing from the Wars of the Heavens and none more so than those who blew up their own planet, Marduk, which was between Mars and Jupiter. They are the ones who control the planet at this moment in time ( I call them the infiltrators).
When one starts to see this bigger picture, you will start to understand, that your soul is not here by some fluke, but rather by design, but it is not your WHOLE soul, it is but a fraction of it.
In some cases, when a planet is about to ascend, and thus move into a higher frequency band or consciousness (as the whole of the Milky Way Galaxy is at the moment) more than one particle of the soul will incarnate. I will call them then Twin Flames, for want of better word to describe them.
The Twin flame differs from and soul mate, in that the soul mate comes from the same SOUL GROUP e.g. THE LOVING ONES, and the twin flame comes of the SAME SOUL, thus is one of the 12 flames which make up your own soul.
In this the soul is equally divided into masculine and feminine particles, as is all of creation. This is equally balanced, for all of creation has a positive and negative charge. In essence then a particle of the soul will have a more negative or positive charge, remembering that this is pure frequency of Light.
I don’t know if you have ever been in a science class where a positively charge ball meets and negatively charged ball – then electromagnetic energy explodes where they meet. This is in essence what happens if two particles of the same soul meet on this planet, called Earth – there is an immense spark ignited, which will find itself expressed in the sexual energies aroused, but unfortunately that is where most people stop.
Relationships in essence are not just about sex – relationships in essence are about a profound sense of INTIMACY, which goes beyond the stripping off of clothes and having good sex.
In the depth of INTIMACY, lies the TRUST.
If I can, at deep and profound SOUL AND HEART level, stand naked, vulnerable and open in front of my Twinflame – totally open: the light and the shadow and there is no hiding whatsoever, no secret agendas, nothing but the purity, the absolute purity and innocence of my soul, and TRUST the other to become ATONE with me, totally opened up at soul level and stripped naked to the core of him or herself, then the two flames merge AS ONE and create a THIRD FORCE which is the SOPHIA or HOLY SACRED FLAME.
As long as there are any parts of me, which are not in higher alignment, which are not opened up, which are not in balance and harmony, the Flame of the Twin will consume and burn me in all those places where I have not made peace with myself, my other flame and most importantly life itself. All those unloved parts of me, will stand there, waiting for me to OWN them and love them – before I can to the same in my MIRROR, my twinflame.
For nobody MIRRORS you as much as the Twin does – after all he or she is part and particle of YOU – of your soul. The Twin knows me inside and out and my shadow and light.
Whatever you hate about yourself, will show up in the Twin. Whatever you love about yourself, will show up in the Twin.
For we all are both, light and dark, positive and negative. It is the BALANCE we seek, that harmony WITHIN, which is ultimately were we TRUST ourselves, that we TRUST the other to come into our most vulnerable, most precious, most treasured parts of ourselves, where we normally do not let another soul in, and be open enough to take him and her completely into ourselves and become AS ONE BEING.
The Twin teaches of about SELF-MASTERY. To the extend we are the master and High Priest, the mistress and the High Priestess of our own Temple, we are able to bring about profound union or reunion with our Twinflame.
The union between the Twinflames, can be the utmost in ecstasy, bliss and euphoria, or can open up the floodgates of Hades and the Underworld. In essence, that is where we are tested the most. That is where our true initiation into sexual sacred rites happen. It is the opening up of the seven veils of our inner sanctuaries within our own physical bodies and that of our heart, our third eyes and soul.
For to the extent that all these seven layers of being, move into the higher octave of Being, which is the 13th elevated state of the Tree of Life itself, the kundalini or serpent energy which we raise in our union, will either burn and consume us or lift us into the higher dimensions of Being.
Why? There is the secret and hidden chamber between our pituitary and pineal glands which gets activated by the serpent energy. If we burn each other rather and unite into one single flame, we short-circuit the energy fields and boomerangs onto us and that is where we are consumed with pain. When we learn to become as one, both flames EQUALLY CHARGED then this chamber ignites and we are moved in the sacred and higher realms which are cosmic in proportion and are in essence the true knowledge of the Tree of Life – the knowledge of eternal life.
It essential comes back to the soul empowerment of BOTH, before the ultimate in union can happen. All roads in life, lead WITHIN.
Until I nurture the sacredness and sanctity of my WHOLE being, and become ATONE within, I cannot ignite the same in my Twinflame and become ATONE with him or her.
The cosmic dance of the Twins, is in reality the cosmic dance of the masculine and feminine and the flame of ATONENESS – harmony, balance and bliss.
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(Judith Kusel)

Searching of THE ONE! (Twinflames, the hype)

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The greatest search for love, starts from deep within….
Before we were born onto this planet, we had not feeling of void, nor being separated from LOVE and we were therefore in the deep and profound KNOWING, that our souls, our very existence, was made up of many particles, which combines into our soul entity, and therefore was whole and complete. We knew all our other particles and knew where they were – so if they had taken on form in another galaxy or dimensional state, we knew where they were and we knew THAT ALL WAS PERFECT, WHOLE AND COMPLETE….
However, the moment when we incarnated onto this planet, we started to find that there was a void…. A deep feeling of not being complete….. of lacking something …. This might not so much have been felt as an infant (yet I have had a great fear of being abandoned all my life – until at a Breakthrough Experience seminar with Dr. John Demartini, something triggered deep inside of me, and I remembered being separated from my mother as a baby – this was because she nearly died and was absent for three months in hospital, and I was left to the care of my eldest sister, father and grandmothers) but might have come later, when school started, and with it not fitting into the norm…. which we all find at some stage or another.
What we really deep down are mourning – IS THE LOSS OF THAT FEELING, THAT DEEP KNOWING THAT WE ARE WHOLE AND COMPLETE AND THE NOTHING IS LACKING OR MISSING AND THAT ALL IS PERFECT, WHOLE AND COMPLETE. IT IS THAT DEEP KNOWING THAT LOVE IS WHAT WE ARE AND THEREFORE LOVE IS ETERNALLY THERE – AND THAT WE WERE BIRTHED IN LOVE AND THIS IS THE DIVINE LOVE (GOD/GODDESS LOVE) and therefore ETERNALLY THERE AND PART AND PARITICLE OF OURSELVES – OF US.
We mourn the loss of our GREATER SOUL SELF, when in reality, these other parts of us, are ALWAYS THERE AND NEVER ABSENT.
WE CAN NEVER LOSE LOVE, NOR BE CUT OFF FROM LOVE, NOR LOSE SOMEONE FOR IN THE INFINITE WHOLE LOVE IS ETERNALLY THERE. IT IS NOT LIKE A TAP WE CAN TURN ON OR OFF – IT IS THERE.
One of the most profound moments of my life, is when at the Breakthrough Experience Dr. Demartini, takes those who have just lost a partner through death, through this process of REMEMBERING THIS. Through the whole collapsing of their emotional pain, they then start understanding that they never LOST anything – but that the LOVE MERELY CHANGED FORM. The minute that we seem to PERCEIVE LOSS – in reality, that person presence might be felt as ABSENT – but someone else will immediately step into the breach or hole and FILL IT UP – SO INSTANTLY WE ARE HELD IN THE ETERNAL AND ALLABIDING LOVE WHICH IS INFINITE – SO IN REALITY THERE CAN BE NO ABSENCE OF LOVE!
So many people these days, are yearning for the ABSOLUTE AND COMPLETE love of a partner – and so the search begins. Whoever started the whole mass consciousness rising about twinflames – had the message right, but the concept of it all has been blown out of proportion. It has left the hype, that if my current relationship is not working out as I wanted it to, or expected it to, there must be SOMEONE BETTER or SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE ME BETTER THAN THIS ONE!
Now, if you are in a abusive relationship – then this of course means that alarm bells are going off and you truly need to take your own power back, and refuse to be bullied into being someone less, or other than your true soul self. So, there it BECOMES A ACT OF TAKING POWER BACK and EMPOWERING yourself, to cut the ties and move out – the same goes with emotional abuse. It is better to be alone, and learn to love yourself completely, than to be in a relationship which constantly is breaking you down and taking your power away.
Yet, in all relationships, it does not matter how potent they were in the very beginning, there is bound to come the time, when the sexual flame is different from the first time, and when there is the fighting, the bickering and going off in different directions. This is natural – we need that constant push and pull in ALL relationships, in order to keep the attraction going. Electricity is produced by two opposite poles and thus it is the friction that makes the sparks. Most of us tend to attract those to us, who are OPPOSITE to ourselves, and then later on hate that opposite, instead of learning to appreciate and love this.
So, then what about twin flames and eternal love? Twin flames to exist, and there are 12 FLAMES which make up ONE SOUL. SO HEED THIS = 12 MAKE UP THE 13th AND THUS THE WHOLE.
Now, listen to this – ONLY A TINY FRACTION OF YOUR SOUL IS INCARNATED AT ONE TIME AND THE OTHER PARTS ARE WORKING ELSEWHERE IN DIFFERENT DIMENSIONS, LIFEFORMS ALL OVER THE COSMOS. So this little part of you that is here on this planet now, is but a FRACTION of the whole. So, you have 11 other parts of yourself somewhere else!
Now we meet someone we are attracted too, and our whole systems go beserk and our tiny fraction is crying out; IS THIS THE ONE?
The fact is that many get INFATUATED and this is sexual attraction – and once the sex wears off then they move onto the next one and next one and next one… ALWAYS THIS IS THE ADRENALIN RUSH – THE EXCITEMENT WHICH BECOMES LIKE A DRUG JUNKIE AND ONE IS NEVER SATISFIED. WHAT IS NOT SATISFIED? THE LUST FACTOR!
Others sit there and they yearn for THE ONE – and then lose out on all of life, because they believe THE ONE will FILL THEM UP AND MAKE THEM COMPLETE!
Where is all of this leading too?
All of life and your soul is ENERGY. THE ENERGY YOU ARE PUTTING OUT THERE IS WHAT YOU ARE LIKELY TO ATTRACT! So if your energy is always crying out for the LACK of what you perceive within yourself, you will attract SOME MORE OF THE SAME. SO YOU WILL ATTRACT A PARTNER WHO WILL TEACH YOU TO LOVE THOSE UNLOVED PARTS OF YOURSELF!
When you start LOVING AND NURTURING AND CARING FOR YOURSELF, YOU RAISE YOUR VIBRATION! WHEN YOU ARE SEEING AND BELIEVING YOURSELF AND LOVING YOURSELF TOTALLY YOU ARE VIBRATING AT A MUCH HIGHER AND FASTER FREQUENCY AND THUS STEPPING UP IN DIMENSIONS AND THEN YOU WILL ATTRACT TO YOURSELF SOMEONE WHO IS ALSO WHOLE AND COMPLETE AND ON THE SAME FREQUENCY AND HIGHER DIMENSIONAL SCALE AS YOURSELF AND THIS MAKES FOR COMPLETE AND BLISSFUL UNION = TWO WHOLES MAKING ONE GREATER WHOLE AND THUS EVER EXPANDING THAT WHOLE TO ENFOLD THE COSMIC WHOLE!
It all comes down to SOUL EMPOWERMENT!
Some of those who have incarnated here onto this planet, as HIGHLY EVOLVED MASTER SOULS – the more they are empowered from deep within, the more their own frequencies and vibrations go up and they then attract LIKE WISE! However, because of being so high a frequency, they will have a hard time of it to find ANYONE matching that and SOME ARE NOT MEANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, FOR THEY CAN BE FREE TO OPERATE ON A MUCH GREATER SCALE BY BEING FREE AND UNENCUMBERED!
My soul readings point this out time and again!
This does not mean that one cannot have relationships – it just takes the pressure off one to always seek THE ONE AND ONLY!
When we nurture our souls and our whole being, we start shining from deep within, we become radiant, and when we become radiant, we start attracting those to use who are radiant too – lit up from WITHIN! OUR FREQUENCIES AND VIBRATIONS START TO MATCH AND THIS THEN MAKES FOR BLISSFUL SEXUAL UNION! TWO FREQUENCIES BECOMING ONE FLAME AND FLAME IS MADE UP OF MULTIPLE STRANDS AND THESE EXPAND OUTWARDS AND IS ESSENTIALLY THE SAME FLAME AS THE DIVINE!
Twinflames, there meet, as parts of the SAME SOUL meeting up. Now, if there 12 parts TO ONE SINGLE SOUL, then it is also true THAT MORE THAN ONE TWIN FLAME IS INCARNATED AT THE SAME TIME. THIS IS TRUE FOR THIS LIFETIME BECAUSE SOME SOUL GROUPS TOOK IT UPON THEMSELVES TO BE ON SPECIAL ASSIGNMENT! This means then that the 12 REUNITED TO FORM ONE SINGLE AND POTENT FLAME WHICH HAS TRANSMUTATIONAL QUALITIES AND COLLECTIVELY PUSH UP THE WHOLE PLANET INTO A HIGHER STATE OF CONSCIOUSNESS! HOWEVER, THIS IS VERY RARELY DONE – THERE MIGHT BE A HANDFUL OF THESE ON THE PLANET – IF THAT!
Others, are most in clusters of two, or three….
Mostly there is a recognizing the other VIA THE EYES! The EYES TRIGGER THE SOUL MEMORY BANKS and thus WE KNOW! WE KNOW A TRUE AND PROFOUND KNOWING THAT THIS IS ONE OF THE OTHER PARTS OF OURSELVES!
YET THERE ARE OTHER SOULS WHO MIGHT BE SOUL MATES AND SOULS WE HAVE BEEN INVOLVED WITH IN OTHER INCARNATIONS WHICH ARE NOT TWIN FLAMES, BUT WE RECOGNIZE THEM TOO – AND OTHER HAVE SOUL LESSONS AND KARMIC LINKS WE HAVE TO WORK THROUGH AND ARE SOUL CONTRACTED WITH THEM TO WORK THROUGH. IF WE TRY TO SIDE-STEP THESE LESSONS, WE WILL REPEAT THEM WITH OTHER SOULS, UNTIL WE MASTER THE LESSONS!
Sometimes, the twin we encounter and recognize, is not ready for us, and might be involved somewhere else, and his or her own soul lessons to master: – this is why we have to learn TO LOVE FREELY – THUS LET LOVE FLOW WITH AN OPEN HEART, NOT TO WANT TO OWN SOMEONE ELSE BUT TO LET THEM FREE TO FLY WITH THEIR OWN WINGS AND ON THEIR OWN STEAM. WE ARE NOT THERE TO PROP THEM UP BUT TO FLY IN UNISON WITH THEM!
THE GREATEST GIFT WE CAN GIVE ANOTHER AT THIS TIME IS THE GIFT OF OPEN-HEARTEDNESS – OF LOVING PAST THE SEEMING IMPERFECTIONS AND THEN SEEING ONLY PERFECTION – THE PERFECTION OF LOVE!
I suggest that you start reading the books of DAVID DEIDA, and then knowing that when we stay open and fully CONSCIOUS of LOVE FROM DEEP WITHIN OUR HEART SPACE, THEN WE START OPENING UP OURSELVES TO LOVE TOTALLY AND PAST THE FEARS AND INSECURITIES AND TOTALLY LOVE WITH OPEN BODIES, HEARTS AND MINDS = THEN WE EXPERIENCE THE BLISSFUL AND DIVINE UION = THE REFLECTION OF THE DIVINE WITHIN US AND THE DIVINE UNION LIKE THE FIRST UNION BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE.
As women this means allowing the MALE PENETRATION OF THE MALE CONSCIOUSNESS TO PENETRATE AND FILL US COMPLETELY AS WE OPEN UP OURSELVES TOTALLY, WITHOUT RESERVE OR FEAR OR RESENTMENT AND ANGER – TOTALLY!
For men this means, in penetration to ALLOW THE FEMININE GIFTS OF OPENING UP AND THEN GIFTING HER WITH ALL OF YOU – YOUR WHOLE CONSCIOUSNESS AND FEEL LOVE CONSCIOUSNESS TOTALLY TRANSMIT THROUGH YOU AND INTO HER – AND THEN RECEIVING HER GIFT OF LOVE AND THEN THE TWO OF YOUR IN GIFTING AND RECEIVING START TO RAISE YOUR CONSIOUSNESS BY MERGING YOUR FLAMES AND YOU BECOME AS ONE AND IN THEN YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS EXPANDS TO THE COSMIC CONSCIOUSNESS AND IN THAT MOMENT OF UTTER BLISS, EUPHORIA AND ECSTASY YOU EXPERIENCE THE STATE OF DIVINE AND SACRED UNION!
Yet, SACRED UNION COMES FIRST OF ALL FROM DEEP INSIDE OF YOU! IF YOU CANNOT LOVE YOURSELF TOTALLY YOU CANNOT OPEN YOURSELF TOTALLY TO DIVINE UNION FOR PARTS OF YOU WILL ALWAYS SHRINK AWAY FROM SUCH!
IT ALL COMES DOWN TO TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN LIFE, LOVE AND WELL-BEING, THE INNER AND OUTER AND THEN GIFTING THE WHOLE AND COMPLETE OF YOU – AND RECEIVING THE WHOLE AND GIFTED PARTS OF ANOTHER AND THIS IS THE RECIPE FOR SACRED AND DIVINE UNION!
It does not matter so much therefore, whether you are with your twin flame or not, ANY relationship is essentially about you and your own capacity to open yourself up totally to the DIVINE inside yourself and then to attract the same in the person you love or will attract into your life.
I am speaking here from experience: All my life I was seeking THE ONE, and withholding myself from relationships – looking for THE ONE to fulfill me. Since I have learnt to open my heart and soul, I have attracted those beautiful male souls into my life who have brought my beautiful lessons in love ….. I thank each and every single one, for they are teaching me beautiful lessons, in opening my heart and soul, AND EMBRACING them fully, completely and utterly and allowing myself to LET LOVE FREE AND UNENCUMBERED. For I know that they cannot make me happy – they can gift me with their presence and love – but ultimately LOVE and LOVING MYSELF – is my own responsibility and not theirs!
SO I HAVE FOUND THE ONE reveals his face in more than one form and in the reality THE ONE is never missing – but always there WITHIN ME!
(For TWINFLAME AND SOUL READINGS PLEASE CONTACT ME: (THESE WILL GIVE YOU THE VITAL UNDERSTANDING OF THE DYNAMICS INVOLVED IN CURRENT UNION, AND IF YOUR TWIN IS INCARNATED OR NOT) judithkusel@gmail.com

To be….or not to be….

To Be…. or not to Be?

There are a thousand whispers and nuances in life that we often fail to hear in our search for life and life more abundantly on this planet…

The more the searches for love becomes an occupational hazard for some, the more they seek it outside themselves…. outside validation: acknowledgement, acclaim, wishing to be completed by another, etc.

The strange thing that happens, is the more we look OUTSIDE of us, for validation, or completeness, of the filling of that void, that never-ending something, the more we will end up feeling in-complete…. un-whole…

I have found that a lot of people expect their partners to fill that hole, the emptiness and when they don’t they simply go on to the next one… until that one too, leaves the hole unfilled…. and then the next and the next…

I often ask people what they are searching for in the Love of their lives…. Now the lists come out:  long lists of what they want…. and most often that list will contain somewhere:-  “I want him or her to love me – so that I feel at last I am home – complete…”

The funny thing is that once the infatuation stage disappears and with it sometimes the passion, then the eyes are already on the next one, who can bring that self-same rush of adrenaline back.   Casanova was a classical example… the more the merrier, and never getting enough…. Always searching… searching… searching…

What exactly IS the SEARCH all about?

I am going back to that:  FEELING COMPLETE….

As long as you are looking for someone to complete you, then you are setting yourself up for disappointment. ….  For the only person who can complete him or herself is: – YOU!

You cannot expect another person to make you happy, for you as about as happy as you choose to be!

The fact is, that your Creator, the Divine, CREATED YOU AS WHOLE.  He/she does not create imperfections!  In the greater Cosmic Whole, there are no half-made, incomplete, or flawed creations!  ALL IS PERFECT, WHOLE AND COMPLETE…

So, where does this void, this whole, this longing for completeness stem from?

It mostly stems from our own beliefs IN BEING SEPARATED FROM THE DIVINE AND FROM ALL THAT IS!

The fact is that most people run away from pain – they don’t want to experience pain, and they don’t want to experience a-lone-ness, or having to path their path a-l-one.

If you go back to the moment that your soul chose to incarnate onto planet, you will see that it discussed your whole life, in fine details, with your Guardian Angels, those Beings who guide you through your life, and the Divine.  Together you look at your DIVINE BLUEPRINT, which is yours, and yours alone.  This of it as a kaleidoscope pattern…. it has its very own geometrical shape.  That synchronizes perfectly with your SOUL NAME, AND YOUR SOUL GROUP NAME.  SO THE THREE ARE IN HARMONY WITH EACH OTHER, AND TO COMPLETE THE TRIANGLE THERE IS A COMPLETE CIRCLE, THAT IS THE DIVINE MOTHER, who holds you in your womb.

You then, look AT WHAT SOUL LESSONS YOU NEED TO EXPRESS, as you UNIQUE GIFTS, TALENTS AND ABILITIES, and what lessons you wish to LEARN OR TO MASTER, and WHAT YOU WISH TO EXPERIENCE WHEN YOU HAVE INCARNATED ON PLANET EARTH, TO HONE YOUR INNER STRENGHT, ABILITIES AND SOUL EXPRESSIONS…. FOR THIS IS THE GREATEST SCHOOL THERE IS! 

This Planet is one of the most popular planets to incarnate on, to hone one’s inner strengths and abilities – for IT CHALLENGES YOU TO CORE!

WHEN YOU ARE THUS BORN, TO THE PARENTS YOU CHOSE YOURSELF, (because of the soul lessons they bring you) YOU ARE PERFECTLY MADE: – YOUR WINGS ARE SHAPED PERFECTLY FOR YOU TO FLY!

It is just, that as we grow, from baby and into adulthood, we forget this, and then we wish to take on the wings of sparrows, and then wonder why we cannot master the art of flying…. when all along we have the wings of an eagle – and an eagle cannot fly with the wings of a sparrow!

In the process of growing up, we assume that other’s wish to bring us pain…. often we withdraw from this… or later on in life, we truly run from one relationship to the other, in order to find someone who will truly validate us.

The funny part of this is, that you TEND TO DRAW OR ATTRACT TO YOURSELF, SOMEONE WHO WILL BE THE OPPOSITE OF YOU AND MIRROR ALL THOSE ASPECTS OF YOURSELF BACK TO YOU THAT YOU HAVE NOT MADE PEACE WITH, OR ARE TRYING TO RUN AWAY FROM.

 Sometimes, because we assume the wings of a sparrow, we are too timid to set healthy boundaries for ourselves, or too overbearing, because we demand too much….

For see, there ARE THE SOUL LESSONS that YOU CHOSE TO MASTER THIS LIFETIME, COMING TO HAUNT YOU: – THOSE DRAGONS THAT YOU ARE SO SCARED TO FACE, THAT BRING YOU PERCEIVED PAIN AND DIS-COMFORT AND STRIFE…

There is a lovely children’s film that I watched recently:  “HOW TO TAME A DRAGON”…. That about says it all.

As long as we are scared of those dragons, as long as we are at-war with them, as long as we FEAR them – they will PERSIST.  We can change partners as much as we like: – they will grow again and again and become BIGGER and BIGGER, UNTIL WE LEARN TO SIT DOWN AND TALK WITH THEM AND ASK THEM WHAT ARE THEY TRYING TO TEACH US!

One of the dragons we have that loves tormenting us is:  IF ONLY.

IF ONLY likes your weak spot, in fact hones in on it.  (Please note dragons, as I will name them, have NO GENDER.  THEY MERELY ARE!  So if I use HIM or HER, the TWO ARE INTERCHANGABLE FOR THEY HAVE NO GENDER!).  IF ONLY likes to tell you that if you get rid of Mr. or Mrs. So and so, you will have a much more peaceful and complete life.  So, you start looking over the fence…. Hmmmm…. that one looks so juicy… Hmmm…. no bad hair days…. no nagging…. no screaming….. Hmmmm, IF ONLY….

IF ONLY loves telling you, that the grass is greener on the other side…. IF ONLY has a companion called REGRET….  REGRET comes in and tells you that you should have done things this way or that way…. REGRET loves honing into all your weak or troubled spots and then in comes dragon number three:  BLAME.  Because, of the inherent fires the others are now blazing into Beingness, blame loves finding something or someone to blame for the pain and unhappiness:  parents, siblings, spouses, governments, conspiracies, bankruptcy, war, calamities, etc.

These three love dancing in tune, and then they use their ability to stir fires and before you know it there is this raging fire deep inside of you, causing you more and more pain.

The fact is these dragons, are actually very peaceful, loving and lovable souls.  All they ask of you is to sit down and talk to them.  To ask them, what it is they are trying to teach you.

IF ONLY, says she is there to teach you, that the grass is not greener on the other side.  IF ONLY, says she wants to show you, that all the answers to all your pain, all the questions you ever had, LIE WITHIN.  

REGRET jumps up and down, and says he is there to teach you, that past is past, and gone is gone.  You cannot do anything about it, except to release it, so that the past can no longer hold you chained up, but if you take out your sword and start cutting yourself free, you will find that a lot of what you regret has long served its purpose….

Now BLAME is joining the conversation:  See, he/she says, the longer you go and blame everyone, the longer you will battle to set yourself free.  For, know this, these people, places, events, all show up in your SOUL CHART, and the SOUL CONTRACT you made BEFORE YOU WERE BORN…. AND YOU AGREED TO IT TO HONE YOUR INNER STRENGTH… AND YOU HAVE FORGOTTEN ALL OF THAT!  The longer you blame everyone, INCLUDING YOURSELF, the longer you will have all of us for company, and then made war against us…. WE DON’T WANT WAR – WE ARE TIRED OF WAR:  WE WANT PEACE!  WE WANT TO SPREAD OUR WINGS AND TEACH YOU TO FLY!

When all three have finally convinced you that you have let go of all of this, then Dragon number FOUR arrives:  PAIN.  Pain, looks fierce some….. You look at him, and you want to run away…. Yet, go and look into his eyes and you will find great love and compassion there…. FOR PAIN IS A GREAT TEACHER.  HE TEACHES YOU THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE FOREVER, THE TIME IS NOW.  HE TEACHES YOU THAT DEATH IS A GREAT TEACHER – IT TEACHES YOU THAT YOU HAVE ONLY SO MUCH TIME ON THIS PLANET – USE YOUR TIME TO LEARN TO UNCONDITIONALLY LOVE YOURSELF AND OTHERS.  PAIN TEACHES YOU THAT THE LONGER YOU HOLD ONTO TO GRUDGES, SELF-BLAME,  BLAME OTHERS, IF ONLY, AND REGRET TO LONGER YOU ARE TAKING TO HEAL AT A DEEP SOUL LEVEL AND TO MASTER YOUR LESSONS.

PAIN SERVES YOU!  PAIN HONES YOUR INNER STRENGTH AND RESILIENCE.  ONCE YOU LET PAIN SOOTHE YOUR SOUL WOUNDS AND HELP YOU TO HEAL, YOU CAN MOVE ON AND INTO LIFE WITH GREATHER STRENGHT, RESILIENCE, SOUL GROWTH AND THAN HELP OTHERS WHO ARE GOING THROUGH THE SAME PROCESS.

YOU CAN TEACH THEM TO CONFRONT THESE DRAGONS AND TO LEARN TO EMBRACE AND LOVE THEM FOR THEY ARE GREAT TEACHERS!

The more you learnt TO LOVE YOURSELF, TO FIND COMPLETENESS WITHIN YOURSELF, TO LOVE YOUR OWN COMPANY, AND BE HAPPY IN YOUR OWN SKIN, and AURA, IN ALL YOUR BODIES – THE MORE YOUR WINGS START GROWING … EAGLE’S WINGS AND ONE DAY YOU FIND YORSELF ABLE TO FLY LIKE AN EAGLE AND NOT LIKE A SPARROW ANY MORE!

The only thing is, and I am warning you now, it the minute that you start soaring higher and higher, the more others will start taking notice, because YOU SHINE!  YOU RAISE OUT AND ABOVE ALL THE OTHERS!

So then, what happens?  Guess who start appearing?  Hello, Dragon number five:  JEALOUSY/INSECURITY/ENVY.   Lucky for you, this is not your dragon, but those who cannot stand your flying high and free…. Yet, this dragon, loves testing you…. She loves finding your resilience to keep on learning to fly higher and higher, and not be distracted nor deterred by the opinion of others, nor the arrows they tend to shoot at you.  For the more you shine you light, the more your spot-light is going to fall on all the other FOUR DRAGONS IN THEIR LIVES THEY HAVE NOT MADE PEACE WITH…

So, you see:  LIFE IS A NEVER-ENDING CIRCLE….. What goes around comes around…. The trick is, is to develop A NEW AND GREATER CIRCLE and then TO OURFLY THE OTHERS!

It might be a tat lonely up there, with no company…. But guess what, by you flying higher and higher, and discovering new worlds, vistas, etc. suddenly others want to follow and see for themselves…. For you are the pioneer, the trail blazer and when you allow yourself to blaze a new trail – others will follow!

Then one day, you see that there is another eagle flying with you, and you start frolicking, dancing and having a ball.  And then you start talking to that eagle…. you start sharing stories, comparing notes…. and you find, that both of you had to confront the same dragons, both of you have scars to show it…. BUT FUNNILY ENOUGH YOU ARE NOW BOTH ABLE TO FLY AT THE SAME HEIGHTS AND VIBRATE AT THE SAME FREQUENCY.  YOU RECOGNIZE A SOUL MATE, A KINDRED SPIRIT AND THEN, SUDDENLY, WITHOUT YOU WISHING FOR IT (FOR YOU WERE HAPPY WITH YOUR OWN COMPANY AND WITH WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE!) YOU FIND TRUE LOVE!

And you find, then that by ADDING YOUR WHOLENESS TO HIS OR HER WHOLENESS, ANOTHER CIRCLE FORMS AROUND YOU:  THE CIRCLE OF AT-ONE-NESS, THE SACRED DIVINE!

THIS IS THE TRUE MEANING OF ALCHEMY AND THE ALCHEMICAL DANCE…. THE SACRED DANCE OF AT-ONE-NESS and finding the ultimate KEYS TO MASTERY – YET ONLY THE FIRST OCTAVE OF THIS!

What happens there-after is a story for another time…. another space….