Twin Flames and Soul Mates: The New Dynamic in relationships….

The Different Levels of Love in Partnership etc.

There are many different levels of partnerships and levels of intimacy, and I am writing this in the context of questions I get asked, about soul mates and twin flames… Especially that at this moment in time when great shifts in consciousness are occurring and a lot of us are experience tremendous upheavals and changes within our relationships.

I have touched on the subject of SOUL GROUPS before, and that each SOUL GROUP contains 144 000 souls.  So within ONE SOUL GROUP there would be 72 000 male and 72 000 female souls and ONE of these would be your other half or TWIN FLAME.

There is one important thing though to note about TWIN FLAMES:  TWIN FLAMES RARELY INCARNATE AT THE SAME TIME – ONE MOSTLY WILL BE ASSISTING ON THE OTHER SIDE AS HIGHER GUIDE AS TWIN FLAME CAN BE VERY CHALLENGING.  THEIR UNION DEMANDS THE DANCE OF BALANCE – THE ULTIMATE BALANCE AND THEY MIRROR EACH OTHER TO SUCH AND EXTENT THAT THE SHADOW WILL REFLECT MORE THAN IN ANY OTHER RELATIONSHIP. 

In some instances, certain soul groups, like the Illumined Ones, the FLAMES between the two are of such potency, that when the balance is not struck, they will take sparks off each other, until they re-learn to MERGE their flame, and then tremendously POWERFUL ENERGIES are released.  They, for instance have incarnated this time round as a pair, because of their ability to heal the Planet’s energy centres… while other twins will have other specific WORK to do and to complete here at this time…

Now, think about all the lifetimes that you did NOT incarnate with your twin… and then you will understand, that just WITHIN YOUR OWN SOUL GROUP you had about 71 999, other MALE souls to chose from if you are a female, and vice versa.

So, during all those incarnations, you would have linked up with a lot of SOUL MATES, who are not only on the same life path as you – because of the SOUL GROUP NAME, but you would have loved each other and formed a bonding of sorts – for the minute one has a sexual relationship with someone, that bonding does occur, and not only physically, but spiritually, mentally and otherwise…

Now, these are not the only souls you did link up – some linked up with souls from other soul groups, sometimes with great trauma occurring.

Once one is intimate with ANYONE, then there are cords being formed and those cords and ties HAVE TO BE SEVERED OR CUT, otherwise, as in case of traumic karma, you will repeat the same old patterns over lifetimes… Yet, it is wise to remember to always keep an open heart and let go with love – and not resentment or hate…

So what happens – by the law of attraction, you will attract those souls you had sex with in other lifetimes again in this lifetime, especially if there are REPEAT patterns or karmic and sexual cords attached.  For every single vow you ever made over lifetimes – there are cords attached to those too, and Angels who look to it that you keep to those vows. 

In this lifetime alone, you will meet up with a lot of soul mates and those you have karmic links with… Meeting them will always trigger something in your sub-conscious as soul recognition occurs.  Yet, in these times, there is the added challenge to HEAL those past life traumatic events and past patterns that pulled you down, so that you can step INTO A HIGHER WAY OF RELATING!

What generally happens is that we HAVE THE FREE CHOICE of carrying on the old patterns… or to truly look with our soul eyes, and then to understand that these patterns are no longer serving us… and then cut the cords…

Or, we can meet up with our soul mates, and feel instant bonding, and then we simply try to cling onto the old familiar pattern, for we fear the unknown.

Another way that this happens is that some are unhappy in their relationships, and now are looking over their shoulders to see if there is not someone else going to appear who will make them happier or more content… That is not the point here…

AS LONG AS YOU EXPECT OTHER SOULS TO MAKE YOU HAPPY YOU HAVE THE WRONG END OF THE STICK.  THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY AND CONTENT IS YOU YOURSELF!  ANOTHER MAY ENHANCE YOU AND COMPLETE THE CIRCLE BY ADDING ANOTHER CIRCLE AROUND THE TWO OF YOU, BUT ANOTHER CANNOT LIVE YOU LIFE FOR YOU AND LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO LOVE YOURSELF!

We are only ever un-happy when we lose our connectedness to our own soul and then – our connectedness with the DIVINE.  More than this – if we forget that we are PART AND PARITCLE OF ALL OF CREATION – NOTHING IS EVER LOST OR MISSING – ALL IS PERFECT WHOLE AND COMPLETE!

I will come back to the SOUL MATE AND TWIN FLAME story:

The challenge at this time, as the New Way is opening up for us, is to truly ask ourselves what is it that we desire in terms of a truly loving relationship?  Is it a true soul connection we are searching for?  Do we wish to connect mind, body, spirit and soul – thus really BECOME ONE like the unity of TWO WHOLES, like the yin/yang symbol?

We will be challenged on this aspect time and again in the next few months, as our normal lives start falling apart more and more.  Where relationships have been anchored more in the physical, and then the soul and spirit side totally neglected, there will be no holding together – no matter how much glue one tries to apply.

Where there is too much emphasis on the mind and too little on the heart and soul, that too will start disintegrating… for the shift is about BALANCE and GROWING in BALANCE… and no-where is this more profoundly felt than in relationships.

WE ARE BUSY BLAZING A NEW TRAIL AND FINDING NEW DYNAMICS IN RELATIONSHIPS AND MOST IMPORTANTLY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS!

Yet, and here lies the crux of the matter and Antoine de Saint-Exupery summed it up so nicely and in a nutshell:  “MAYBE LOVE IS ME, LEADING YOU, GENTLY BACK TO YOURSELF!”

Yes, oneself!  For if one cannot love oneself unconditionally, it is nay impossible to love another unconditionally. 

YOU CAN ONLY LOVE ANOTHER SOUL TO THE DEPTHS THAT YOU LOVE YOURSELF!

LOVE IS SOMETHING THAT IS ALWAYS THERE – yet somehow during our progress through life, a lot of us learn to hate ourselves, get down badly upon ourselves, and believe that there is something dreadfully WRONG with ourselves….. 

The fact is that YOU WERE MADE PERFECTLY, AND YOU ARE PERFECTLY FORMED.  YOUR SOUL IS PERFECTION: – ONLY YOU TEND TO FORGET THIS.

When you hear your own SOUL NAME, like I did, when I first discovered that I could do this: – I burst into tears!  At that stage of my life I believed that there was something dreadfully wrong with me… mainly because I was so totally different from all my siblings, and I tend to stand out.  All my life I have taken the ROAD LESS TRAVELLED, and have dearly for it.  It is a lonely road to travel on, if you are constantly being misinterpreted and misunderstood…. and then empathic and sensitive too!

It has taken me a long time, to understand that in the Divine’s eyes I am perfectly made – the Divine’s Love for me is unconditional and he/she DOES NOT CREATE IMPERFECTIONS!  It is because WE LEARN CERTAIN BEHAVIOURS IN LIFE OR FEEL REJECTION OR PAIN OR ARE TEASED OR TORMENTED or whatever, that we start believing the LIES…. The only thing is, later in life we can’t remember which is which:  what is truth and what are lies!

The good thing though is that we are able to RE-LEARN and RE-LOVE… for the minute that we truly start BELIEVING IN OURSELVES AGAIN AND START LEARNING TO LOVE ALL ASPECTS OF SELF – then we start TRANSFORMING -= we start lighting up and it is then that we are most likely to attract the RIGHT SOUL PARTNER INTO OUR LIVES… Yet, that soul partner will challenge us, ON THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE bit – time and again.  For now we do not just have to learn to love and accept ourselves unconditionally – we have to love and accept another completely too!

Then why SOUL MATES or TWIN FLAMES? 

MOSTLY BECAUSE IT WILL BE MUCH EASIER TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS COMPLETED MIND, BODY, SPIRIT and SOUL with someone WHO COMES FROM THE SAME SOUL GROUP AS OURSELVES AND THUS VIBRATES AT THE SAME SOUL FREQUENCY.  OUR FREQUENCIES THEN ARE EASIER TO MERGE AND GROW IN AT-ONE-NESS FOR WE SING THE SAME SONG – albeit different refrains as we have different soul nuances – BUT ULTIMATELY WE HARMONISE TO PERFECTION…. beautiful music is made….

When we end up with someone who has a different SOUL TUNE or FREQUENCY, we tend to be OUT OF TUNE with them – we might be in tune for the first few months and years and then suddenly wonder what happened…. Somewhere the two started singing different songs and use different chords, causing dis-harmony!

This is ANCIENT KNOWLEDGE and one that most religious organizations have SUPRESSED FOR THEY DO NOT WISH PEOPLE TO EMPOWER THEMSELVES AT SOUL LEVEL! 

When you KNOW who and what YOU ARE AT SOUL LEVEL, and you HEAL AT SOUL LEVEL, then to step into a different OCTAVE of consciousness – for now you LEARN TO VIBRATE IN HARMONY AND TUNE WITH THE SOUL GROUP VIBRATION AMPLIFIED 144 000 TIMES!

There-in lays the KEY!  If you unite with your soul mate or twin flame, you immediately START TO AMPLIFY THE VIBRATIONAL FREQUENCY NOT ONLY TWO TIMES BUT MULTIPLE TIMES – which is the making of BLISS, once both learn how to handle this potent source of ENERGY, KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM AND THE SEXUAL ENERGY here!

I could go on forever, once I get going on this subject and truly would love to teach people the HIGHER STATES OF RELATIONSHIPS AND BEING!  Mostly forgotten! 

When we, in the next few years, re-learn how to RELATE and how to become TRULY INTIMATE IN SOUL RELATIONSHIPS, then WE ARE STEPPING INTO A TOTALLY DIFFERENT BALL GAME!  For some it is already happening and for some this will be happening in the next few years, leading up to 2014.

This is the time to learn to DANCE with the cosmic and earth energies, and with the soul mates or twin flames that have incarnated WITH US at this time, so that we can truly assist planet Earth to ascend and in the ascending we, collectively, raise the consciousness of others.  This is the main reason why we are here!

Soul mates and Sexual Energies…..

Not all who are incarnated here on this planet at this time, have a TWIN FLAME… as most often a Twin does not incarnate at the same time.  Sometimes the TWIN (especially in these vital next few years) simply gets lost and forgets who he/she is, or has forgotten his/her commitment…. then the SOUL MATE will step in.  A soul mate is someone who comes from the same SOUL GROUP.

All souls form part of the GREATER SOUL GROUP of MONAD…. Each such group consists of 144 000 souls and they have different names.  Thus you will find that, when in meditation you ask for the SOUL NAME, it will vibrate on the same FREQUENCY, as your SOUL GROUP NAME.

When you are still unsure of your SOUL GROUP NAME, and have remembered your SOUL NAME, it is best to simply go into meditation and reconnect with your Higher Self, your guardian angels and ASK them to give you the same of your SOUL GROUP.  You will hear a SPIRITUALLY SOUNDING NAME, which will reflect the VIBRATION of the SOUL GROUP and the RAY it is working on.

There are many different soul groups represented on this planet at this time…. So you will find that some people resonate with you immediately as SOUL MATES/TWIN FLAMES, while others simply never seem to be on your wavelength.  This simply is TRUE:  Their SOULS do not vibrate at your frequency, and thus do not emit the same colour rays and the same tonal cord vibration as yours.

In Ancient Times, when you were born, the astrologer Priests, along with the Priests of the Temples of Higher Healing, would work with your mother (when she first conceived you) and then would IDENDIFY your soul group, and then would help you with your incarnation.  When you were born a BIRTH CHART was drawn up, which they RECORDED ON THE SPECIAL BIRTH CRYSTAL, which stayed with you all your life.  You would also always have on your person, a CRYSTAL from your GALAXY of ORIGIN, your SOUL GROUP, and THREE WORKED IN TANDEM.

When your vibrational frequency got out of synch you would be sent to the Crystal Pyramid Temple of Healing, where the High Priest/ess would use these three crystals, in conjunction with others and other methods to realign you to your soul mission and to readjust your frequency….

What this SOUL CRYSTAL did, was also TO RECORD THE SOULS THAT YOU WERE MEANT TO MEET DURING THAT LIFETIME… WITH THIS THE RECORD OF YOUR SOUL MATES AND YOUR TWIN FLAME (IF INCARNATED) 

Please note here:  Your Twin Flame, normally DOES NOT INCARNATE at the same time, as you do…. Only on very rare occasions do they CHOSE to do so, and then only, in HIGHER SERVICE (as is happening at this time!)  Mostly they will assist you from the invisible planes to hold your combined light steady!  Not all who are incarnated at this time have their twin here too!

Your SOUL MATES were listed on the crystal and then the one that you would find most compatible as your SOUL PARTNER…. Thus, when you did meet up with this person, and you would fall in love, and decide to commit to partnership (they did not get married, as this was a SOUL AGREEMENT), they would go to the Crystal Pyramid Temple and would seek guidance from the High Priest/ess at the TEMPLE OF LOVE…

She/He would then read their BIRTH, SOUL and GALAXY CRYSTALS to read the SOUL HISTORY of BOTH SOULS.  If this formed part of their SOUL CONTRACT, they would then be allowed to commit to partnership and a special ceremony, just involving the two and the Priest, would then seal the union.

If two were not compatible, the reasons why, would be shown to the two partners, and they could then chose to casually link up, but then would not have children…. as to have children was a considered a SACRED RESPONSIBILITY.

The Ancients had other ways to deal with the sexual energy and knew that when two different ENERGIES mixed FREQUENCY DURING THE SEXUAL ACT, a certain frequency energy was released, which could either be CONSTRUCTIVE and ENHANCE the relationship or be DESTRUCTIVE and break down the frequencies of BOTH partners…

This is that they knew, that when two people made love, and the FREQUENCY ENERGIES WERE NOT THE SAME or EQUALLY MATCHED, and thus also LOVINGLY involved, THEN ONE COULD STEAL OR TAP INTO THE ENERGY FIELD OF THE OTHER AND THEN ZAP THIS PERSONS ENERGY….. 

Thus you were a tat careful about whom you aloud into your energy fields and ESPECIALLY in the act of having sex!

This is something we have forgotten: with the right SOUL partner, who resonates with us, mind, body, spirit and soul and when we bond in loving union, the sexual energy is the most amazing and potent ENERGY source, which can be released! 

It is a beautiful dance of the frequencies and vibrations between two lovers, reaching a CRESCENDO…. When done in the right milieu and with the right aids, this ENERGY can not only add to BOTH partners physical wellbeing, but also their spiritual, mental and emotional health…. It can also lead to amazing other energies being generated from this union….

The sexual act is meant to ENHANCE, EXPAND CONSCIOUSNESS OF BOTH PARTNERS, AND LEAD TO EUPHORIA, BLISS AND EXUBERANT BEING!   It is one of the greatest gifts you can give another SOUL MATE who RESONATES WITH YOUR OWN BEING.

Yet, do this, with the WRONG PARTNERS and either one will always feel that something is missing.  In the moment of having sex, that might be a moment’s gratification, but then the feeling of emptiness remains…. That is why some people start looking for the next and next person… for one night stands, always in search of gratification of the senses, and then somehow feeling that something or other is dreadfully missing… IT IS!

In Ancient Times, the High Priestesses of the Crystal Pyramid Temple of Love, once they had given permission for two people to commit to partnership, would first take the two into separate initiations, so that they would step into higher frequency states and be initiated into the full use of the sexual energies (which went far beyond the mere union… it was used for other purposes as well….)

In these next few years, if the twin relationship falters, the SOUL MATE will step in, so that the SOUL GROUP AS A WHOLE can advance and evolve… This is because of the CHALLENGE of Twin Flame, and sometimes one of them forgets or gets distracted from his or her ultimate mission….

As the love between the soul mates in a soul group is so closely bonded, the SOUL MATE will step in and this union is often easier to deal with, than that of the Twin Flame relationship, and is blessed in manifold ways…