The Different Levels of Love in Partnership etc.
There are many different levels of partnerships and levels of intimacy, and I am writing this in the context of questions I get asked, about soul mates and twin flames… Especially that at this moment in time when great shifts in consciousness are occurring and a lot of us are experience tremendous upheavals and changes within our relationships.
I have touched on the subject of SOUL GROUPS before, and that each SOUL GROUP contains 144 000 souls. So within ONE SOUL GROUP there would be 72 000 male and 72 000 female souls and ONE of these would be your other half or TWIN FLAME.
There is one important thing though to note about TWIN FLAMES: TWIN FLAMES RARELY INCARNATE AT THE SAME TIME – ONE MOSTLY WILL BE ASSISTING ON THE OTHER SIDE AS HIGHER GUIDE AS TWIN FLAME CAN BE VERY CHALLENGING. THEIR UNION DEMANDS THE DANCE OF BALANCE – THE ULTIMATE BALANCE AND THEY MIRROR EACH OTHER TO SUCH AND EXTENT THAT THE SHADOW WILL REFLECT MORE THAN IN ANY OTHER RELATIONSHIP.
In some instances, certain soul groups, like the Illumined Ones, the FLAMES between the two are of such potency, that when the balance is not struck, they will take sparks off each other, until they re-learn to MERGE their flame, and then tremendously POWERFUL ENERGIES are released. They, for instance have incarnated this time round as a pair, because of their ability to heal the Planet’s energy centres… while other twins will have other specific WORK to do and to complete here at this time…
Now, think about all the lifetimes that you did NOT incarnate with your twin… and then you will understand, that just WITHIN YOUR OWN SOUL GROUP you had about 71 999, other MALE souls to chose from if you are a female, and vice versa.
So, during all those incarnations, you would have linked up with a lot of SOUL MATES, who are not only on the same life path as you – because of the SOUL GROUP NAME, but you would have loved each other and formed a bonding of sorts – for the minute one has a sexual relationship with someone, that bonding does occur, and not only physically, but spiritually, mentally and otherwise…
Now, these are not the only souls you did link up – some linked up with souls from other soul groups, sometimes with great trauma occurring.
Once one is intimate with ANYONE, then there are cords being formed and those cords and ties HAVE TO BE SEVERED OR CUT, otherwise, as in case of traumic karma, you will repeat the same old patterns over lifetimes… Yet, it is wise to remember to always keep an open heart and let go with love – and not resentment or hate…
So what happens – by the law of attraction, you will attract those souls you had sex with in other lifetimes again in this lifetime, especially if there are REPEAT patterns or karmic and sexual cords attached. For every single vow you ever made over lifetimes – there are cords attached to those too, and Angels who look to it that you keep to those vows.
In this lifetime alone, you will meet up with a lot of soul mates and those you have karmic links with… Meeting them will always trigger something in your sub-conscious as soul recognition occurs. Yet, in these times, there is the added challenge to HEAL those past life traumatic events and past patterns that pulled you down, so that you can step INTO A HIGHER WAY OF RELATING!
What generally happens is that we HAVE THE FREE CHOICE of carrying on the old patterns… or to truly look with our soul eyes, and then to understand that these patterns are no longer serving us… and then cut the cords…
Or, we can meet up with our soul mates, and feel instant bonding, and then we simply try to cling onto the old familiar pattern, for we fear the unknown.
Another way that this happens is that some are unhappy in their relationships, and now are looking over their shoulders to see if there is not someone else going to appear who will make them happier or more content… That is not the point here…
AS LONG AS YOU EXPECT OTHER SOULS TO MAKE YOU HAPPY YOU HAVE THE WRONG END OF THE STICK. THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY AND CONTENT IS YOU YOURSELF! ANOTHER MAY ENHANCE YOU AND COMPLETE THE CIRCLE BY ADDING ANOTHER CIRCLE AROUND THE TWO OF YOU, BUT ANOTHER CANNOT LIVE YOU LIFE FOR YOU AND LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO LOVE YOURSELF!
We are only ever un-happy when we lose our connectedness to our own soul and then – our connectedness with the DIVINE. More than this – if we forget that we are PART AND PARITCLE OF ALL OF CREATION – NOTHING IS EVER LOST OR MISSING – ALL IS PERFECT WHOLE AND COMPLETE!
I will come back to the SOUL MATE AND TWIN FLAME story:
The challenge at this time, as the New Way is opening up for us, is to truly ask ourselves what is it that we desire in terms of a truly loving relationship? Is it a true soul connection we are searching for? Do we wish to connect mind, body, spirit and soul – thus really BECOME ONE like the unity of TWO WHOLES, like the yin/yang symbol?
We will be challenged on this aspect time and again in the next few months, as our normal lives start falling apart more and more. Where relationships have been anchored more in the physical, and then the soul and spirit side totally neglected, there will be no holding together – no matter how much glue one tries to apply.
Where there is too much emphasis on the mind and too little on the heart and soul, that too will start disintegrating… for the shift is about BALANCE and GROWING in BALANCE… and no-where is this more profoundly felt than in relationships.
WE ARE BUSY BLAZING A NEW TRAIL AND FINDING NEW DYNAMICS IN RELATIONSHIPS AND MOST IMPORTANTLY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS!
Yet, and here lies the crux of the matter and Antoine de Saint-Exupery summed it up so nicely and in a nutshell: “MAYBE LOVE IS ME, LEADING YOU, GENTLY BACK TO YOURSELF!”
Yes, oneself! For if one cannot love oneself unconditionally, it is nay impossible to love another unconditionally.
YOU CAN ONLY LOVE ANOTHER SOUL TO THE DEPTHS THAT YOU LOVE YOURSELF!
LOVE IS SOMETHING THAT IS ALWAYS THERE – yet somehow during our progress through life, a lot of us learn to hate ourselves, get down badly upon ourselves, and believe that there is something dreadfully WRONG with ourselves…..
The fact is that YOU WERE MADE PERFECTLY, AND YOU ARE PERFECTLY FORMED. YOUR SOUL IS PERFECTION: – ONLY YOU TEND TO FORGET THIS.
When you hear your own SOUL NAME, like I did, when I first discovered that I could do this: – I burst into tears! At that stage of my life I believed that there was something dreadfully wrong with me… mainly because I was so totally different from all my siblings, and I tend to stand out. All my life I have taken the ROAD LESS TRAVELLED, and have dearly for it. It is a lonely road to travel on, if you are constantly being misinterpreted and misunderstood…. and then empathic and sensitive too!
It has taken me a long time, to understand that in the Divine’s eyes I am perfectly made – the Divine’s Love for me is unconditional and he/she DOES NOT CREATE IMPERFECTIONS! It is because WE LEARN CERTAIN BEHAVIOURS IN LIFE OR FEEL REJECTION OR PAIN OR ARE TEASED OR TORMENTED or whatever, that we start believing the LIES…. The only thing is, later in life we can’t remember which is which: what is truth and what are lies!
The good thing though is that we are able to RE-LEARN and RE-LOVE… for the minute that we truly start BELIEVING IN OURSELVES AGAIN AND START LEARNING TO LOVE ALL ASPECTS OF SELF – then we start TRANSFORMING -= we start lighting up and it is then that we are most likely to attract the RIGHT SOUL PARTNER INTO OUR LIVES… Yet, that soul partner will challenge us, ON THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE bit – time and again. For now we do not just have to learn to love and accept ourselves unconditionally – we have to love and accept another completely too!
Then why SOUL MATES or TWIN FLAMES?
MOSTLY BECAUSE IT WILL BE MUCH EASIER TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS COMPLETED MIND, BODY, SPIRIT and SOUL with someone WHO COMES FROM THE SAME SOUL GROUP AS OURSELVES AND THUS VIBRATES AT THE SAME SOUL FREQUENCY. OUR FREQUENCIES THEN ARE EASIER TO MERGE AND GROW IN AT-ONE-NESS FOR WE SING THE SAME SONG – albeit different refrains as we have different soul nuances – BUT ULTIMATELY WE HARMONISE TO PERFECTION…. beautiful music is made….
When we end up with someone who has a different SOUL TUNE or FREQUENCY, we tend to be OUT OF TUNE with them – we might be in tune for the first few months and years and then suddenly wonder what happened…. Somewhere the two started singing different songs and use different chords, causing dis-harmony!
This is ANCIENT KNOWLEDGE and one that most religious organizations have SUPRESSED FOR THEY DO NOT WISH PEOPLE TO EMPOWER THEMSELVES AT SOUL LEVEL!
When you KNOW who and what YOU ARE AT SOUL LEVEL, and you HEAL AT SOUL LEVEL, then to step into a different OCTAVE of consciousness – for now you LEARN TO VIBRATE IN HARMONY AND TUNE WITH THE SOUL GROUP VIBRATION AMPLIFIED 144 000 TIMES!
There-in lays the KEY! If you unite with your soul mate or twin flame, you immediately START TO AMPLIFY THE VIBRATIONAL FREQUENCY NOT ONLY TWO TIMES BUT MULTIPLE TIMES – which is the making of BLISS, once both learn how to handle this potent source of ENERGY, KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM AND THE SEXUAL ENERGY here!
I could go on forever, once I get going on this subject and truly would love to teach people the HIGHER STATES OF RELATIONSHIPS AND BEING! Mostly forgotten!
When we, in the next few years, re-learn how to RELATE and how to become TRULY INTIMATE IN SOUL RELATIONSHIPS, then WE ARE STEPPING INTO A TOTALLY DIFFERENT BALL GAME! For some it is already happening and for some this will be happening in the next few years, leading up to 2014.
This is the time to learn to DANCE with the cosmic and earth energies, and with the soul mates or twin flames that have incarnated WITH US at this time, so that we can truly assist planet Earth to ascend and in the ascending we, collectively, raise the consciousness of others. This is the main reason why we are here!