The Search for THE ONE! (and the current Twinflame Love hype)
The greatest search for love, starts from deep within….
Before we were born onto this planet, we had not feeling of void, nor being separated from LOVE and we were therefore in the deep and profound KNOWING, that our souls, our very existence, was made up of many particles, which combines into our soul entity, and therefore was whole and complete. We knew all our other particles and knew where they were – so if they had taken on form in another galaxy or dimensional state, we knew where they were and we knew THAT ALL WAS PERFECT, WHOLE AND COMPLETE….
However, the moment when we incarnated onto this planet, we started to find that there was a void…. A deep feeling of not being complete….. of lacking something …. This might not so much have been felt as an infant (yet I have had a great fear of being abandoned all my life – until at a Breakthrough Experience seminar with Dr. John Demartini, something triggered deep inside of me, and I remembered being separated from my mother as a baby – this was because she nearly died and was absent for three months in hospital, and I was left to the care of my eldest sister, father and grandmothers) but might have come later, when school started, and with it not fitting into the norm…. which we all find at some stage or another.
What we really deep down are mourning – IS THE LOSS OF THAT FEELING, THAT DEEP KNOWING THAT WE ARE WHOLE AND COMPLETE AND THE NOTHING IS LACKING OR MISSING AND THAT ALL IS PERFECT, WHOLE AND COMPLETE. IT IS THAT DEEP KNOWING THAT LOVE IS WHAT WE ARE AND THEREFORE LOVE IS ETERNALLY THERE – AND THAT WE WERE BIRTHED IN LOVE AND THIS IS THE DIVINE LOVE (GOD/GODDESS LOVE) and therefore ETERNALLY THERE AND PART AND PARITICLE OF OURSELVES – OF US.
We mourn the loss of our GREATER SOUL SELF, when in reality, these other parts of us, are ALWAYS THERE AND NEVER ABSENT.
WE CAN NEVER LOSE LOVE, NOR BE CUT OFF FROM LOVE, NOR LOSE SOMEONE FOR IN THE INFINITE WHOLE LOVE IS ETERNALLY THERE. IT IS NOT LIKE A TAP WE CAN TURN ON OR OFF – IT IS THERE.
One of the most profound moments of my life, is when at the Breakthrough Experience Dr. Demartini, takes those who have just lost a partner through death, through this process of REMEMBERING THIS. Through the whole collapsing of their emotional pain, they then start understanding that they never LOST anything – but that the LOVE MERELY CHANGED FORM. The minute that we seem to PERCEIVE LOSS – in reality, that person presence might be felt as ABSENT – but someone else will immediately step into the breach or hole and FILL IT UP – SO INSTANTLY WE ARE HELD IN THE ETERNAL AND ALLABIDING LOVE WHICH IS INFINITE – SO IN REALITY THERE CAN BE NO ABSENCE OF LOVE!
So many people these days, are yearning for the ABSOLUTE AND COMPLETE love of a partner – and so the search begins. Whoever started the whole mass consciousness rising about twinflames – had the message right, but the concept of it all has been blown out of proportion. It has left the hype, that if my current relationship is not working out as I wanted it to, or expected it to, there must be SOMEONE BETTER or SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE ME BETTER THAN THIS ONE!
Now, if you are in a abusive relationship – then this of course means that alarm bells are going off and you truly need to take your own power back, and refuse to be bullied into being someone less, or other than your true soul self. So, there it BECOMES A ACT OF TAKING POWER BACK and EMPOWERING yourself, to cut the ties and move out – the same goes with emotional abuse. It is better to be alone, and learn to love yourself completely, than to be in a relationship which constantly is breaking you down and taking your power away.
Yet, in all relationships, it does not matter how potent they were in the very beginning, there is bound to come the time, when the sexual flame is different from the first time, and when there is the fighting, the bickering and going off in different directions. This is natural – we need that constant push and pull in ALL relationships, in order to keep the attraction going. Electricity is produced by two opposite poles and thus it is the friction that makes the sparks. Most of us tend to attract those to us, who are OPPOSITE to ourselves, and then later on hate that opposite, instead of learning to appreciate and love this.
So, then what about twin flames and eternal love? Twin flames to exist, and there are 12 FLAMES which make up ONE SOUL. SO HEED THIS = 12 MAKE UP THE 13th AND THUS THE WHOLE.
Now, listen to this – ONLY A TINY FRACTION OF YOUR SOUL IS INCARNATED AT ONE TIME AND THE OTHER PARTS ARE WORKING ELSEWHERE IN DIFFERENT DIMENSIONS, LIFEFORMS ALL OVER THE COSMOS. So this little part of you that is here on this planet now, is but a FRACTION of the whole. So, you have 11 other parts of yourself somewhere else!
Now we meet someone we are attracted too, and our whole systems go beserk and our tiny fraction is crying out; IS THIS THE ONE?
The fact is that many get INFATUATED and this is sexual attraction – and once the sex wears off then they move onto the next one and next one and next one… ALWAYS THIS IS THE ADRENALIN RUSH – THE EXCITEMENT WHICH BECOMES LIKE A DRUG JUNKIE AND ONE IS NEVER SATISFIED. WHAT IS NOT SATISFIED? THE LUST FACTOR!
Others sit there and they yearn for THE ONE – and then lose out on all of life, because they believe THE ONE will FILL THEM UP AND MAKE THEM COMPLETE!
Where is all of this leading too?
All of life and your soul is ENERGY. THE ENERGY YOU ARE PUTTING OUT THERE IS WHAT YOU ARE LIKELY TO ATTRACT! So if your energy is always crying out for the LACK of what you perceive within yourself, you will attract SOME MORE OF THE SAME. SO YOU WILL ATTRACT A PARTNER WHO WILL TEACH YOU TO LOVE THOSE UNLOVED PARTS OF YOURSELF!
When you start LOVING AND NURTURING AND CARING FOR YOURSELF, YOU RAISE YOUR VIBRATION! WHEN YOU ARE SEEING AND BELIEVING YOURSELF AND LOVING YOURSELF TOTALLY YOU ARE VIBRATING AT A MUCH HIGHER AND FASTER FREQUENCY AND THUS STEPPING UP IN DIMENSIONS AND THEN YOU WILL ATTRACT TO YOURSELF SOMEONE WHO IS ALSO WHOLE AND COMPLETE AND ON THE SAME FREQUENCY AND HIGHER DIMENSIONAL SCALE AS YOURSELF AND THIS MAKES FOR COMPLETE AND BLISSFUL UNION = TWO WHOLES MAKING ONE GREATER WHOLE AND THUS EVER EXPANDING THAT WHOLE TO ENFOLD THE COSMIC WHOLE!
It all comes down to SOUL EMPOWERMENT!
Some of those who have incarnated here onto this planet, as HIGHLY EVOLVED MASTER SOULS – the more they are empowered from deep within, the more their own frequencies and vibrations go up and they then attract LIKE WISE! However, because of being so high a frequency, they will have a hard time of it to find ANYONE matching that and SOME ARE NOT MEANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, FOR THEY CAN BE FREE TO OPERATE ON A MUCH GREATER SCALE BY BEING FREE AND UNENCUMBERED!
My soul readings point this out time and again!
This does not mean that one cannot have relationships – it just takes the pressure off one to always seek THE ONE AND ONLY!
When we nurture our souls and our whole being, we start shining from deep within, we become radiant, and when we become radiant, we start attracting those to use who are radiant too – lit up from WITHIN! OUR FREQUENCIES AND VIBRATIONS START TO MATCH AND THIS THEN MAKES FOR BLISSFUL SEXUAL UNION! TWO FREQUENCIES BECOMING ONE FLAME AND FLAME IS MADE UP OF MULTIPLE STRANDS AND THESE EXPAND OUTWARDS AND IS ESSENTIALLY THE SAME FLAME AS THE DIVINE!
Twinflames, there meet, as parts of the SAME SOUL meeting up. Now, if there 12 parts TO ONE SINGLE SOUL, then it is also true THAT MORE THAN ONE TWIN FLAME IS INCARNATED AT THE SAME TIME. THIS IS TRUE FOR THIS LIFETIME BECAUSE SOME SOUL GROUPS TOOK IT UPON THEMSELVES TO BE ON SPECIAL ASSIGNMENT! This means then that the 12 REUNITED TO FORM ONE SINGLE AND POTENT FLAME WHICH HAS TRANSMUTATIONAL QUALITIES AND COLLECTIVELY PUSH UP THE WHOLE PLANET INTO A HIGHER STATE OF CONSCIOUSNESS! HOWEVER, THIS IS VERY RARELY DONE – THERE MIGHT BE A HANDFUL OF THESE ON THE PLANET – IF THAT!
Others, are most in clusters of two, or three….
Mostly there is a recognizing the other VIA THE EYES! The EYES TRIGGER THE SOUL MEMORY BANKS and thus WE KNOW! WE KNOW A TRUE AND PROFOUND KNOWING THAT THIS IS ONE OF THE OTHER PARTS OF OURSELVES!
YET THERE ARE OTHER SOULS WHO MIGHT BE SOUL MATES AND SOULS WE HAVE BEEN INVOLVED WITH IN OTHER INCARNATIONS WHICH ARE NOT TWIN FLAMES, BUT WE RECOGNIZE THEM TOO – AND OTHER HAVE SOUL LESSONS AND KARMIC LINKS WE HAVE TO WORK THROUGH AND ARE SOUL CONTRACTED WITH THEM TO WORK THROUGH. IF WE TRY TO SIDE-STEP THESE LESSONS, WE WILL REPEAT THEM WITH OTHER SOULS, UNTIL WE MASTER THE LESSONS!
Sometimes, the twin we encounter and recognize, is not ready for us, and might be involved somewhere else, and his or her own soul lessons to master: – this is why we have to learn TO LOVE FREELY – THUS LET LOVE FLOW WITH AN OPEN HEART, NOT TO WANT TO OWN SOMEONE ELSE BUT TO LET THEM FREE TO FLY WITH THEIR OWN WINGS AND ON THEIR OWN STEAM. WE ARE NOT THERE TO PROP THEM UP BUT TO FLY IN UNISON WITH THEM!
THE GREATEST GIFT WE CAN GIVE ANOTHER AT THIS TIME IS THE GIFT OF OPEN-HEARTEDNESS – OF LOVING PAST THE SEEMING IMPERFECTIONS AND THEN SEEING ONLY PERFECTION – THE PERFECTION OF LOVE!
I suggest that you start reading the books of DAVID DEIDA, and then knowing that when we stay open and fully CONSCIOUS of LOVE FROM DEEP WITHIN OUR HEART SPACE, THEN WE START OPENING UP OURSELVES TO LOVE TOTALLY AND PAST THE FEARS AND INSECURITIES AND TOTALLY LOVE WITH OPEN BODIES, HEARTS AND MINDS = THEN WE EXPERIENCE THE BLISSFUL AND DIVINE UION = THE REFLECTION OF THE DIVINE WITHIN US AND THE DIVINE UNION LIKE THE FIRST UNION BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE.
As women this means allowing the MALE PENETRATION OF THE MALE CONSCIOUSNESS TO PENETRATE AND FILL US COMPLETELY AS WE OPEN UP OURSELVES TOTALLY, WITHOUT RESERVE OR FEAR OR RESENTMENT AND ANGER – TOTALLY!
For men this means, in penetration to ALLOW THE FEMININE GIFTS OF OPENING UP AND THEN GIFTING HER WITH ALL OF YOU – YOUR WHOLE CONSCIOUSNESS AND FEEL LOVE CONSCIOUSNESS TOTALLY TRANSMIT THROUGH YOU AND INTO HER – AND THEN RECEIVING HER GIFT OF LOVE AND THEN THE TWO OF YOUR IN GIFTING AND RECEIVING START TO RAISE YOUR CONSIOUSNESS BY MERGING YOUR FLAMES AND YOU BECOME AS ONE AND IN THEN YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS EXPANDS TO THE COSMIC CONSCIOUSNESS AND IN THAT MOMENT OF UTTER BLISS, EUPHORIA AND ECSTASY YOU EXPERIENCE THE STATE OF DIVINE AND SACRED UNION!
Yet, SACRED UNION COMES FIRST OF ALL FROM DEEP INSIDE OF YOU! IF YOU CANNOT LOVE YOURSELF TOTALLY YOU CANNOT OPEN YOURSELF TOTALLY TO DIVINE UNION FOR PARTS OF YOU WILL ALWAYS SHRINK AWAY FROM SUCH!
IT ALL COMES DOWN TO TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN LIFE, LOVE AND WELL-BEING, THE INNER AND OUTER AND THEN GIFTING THE WHOLE AND COMPLETE OF YOU – AND RECEIVING THE WHOLE AND GIFTED PARTS OF ANOTHER AND THIS IS THE RECIPE FOR SACRED AND DIVINE UNION!
It does not matter so much therefore, whether you are with your twin flame or not, ANY relationship is essentially about you and your own capacity to open yourself up totally to the DIVINE inside yourself and then to attract the same in the person you love or will attract into your life.
I am speaking here from experience: All my life I was seeking THE ONE, and withholding myself from relationships – looking for THE ONE to fulfill me. Since I have learnt to open my heart and soul, I have attracted those beautiful male souls into my life who have brought my beautiful lessons in love ….. I thank each and every single one, for they are teaching me beautiful lessons, in opening my heart and soul, AND EMBRACING them fully, completely and utterly and allowing myself to LET LOVE FREE AND UNENCUMBERED. For I know that they cannot make me happy – they can gift me with their presence and love – but ultimately LOVE and LOVING MYSELF – is my own responsibility and not theirs!
SO I HAVE FOUND THE ONE reveals his face in more than one form and in the reality THE ONE is never missing – but always there WITHIN ME!
(For TWINFLAME AND SOUL READINGS PLEASE CONTACT ME: (THESE WILL GIVE YOU THE VITAL UNDERSTANDING OF THE DYNAMICS INVOLVED IN CURRENT UNION, AND IF YOUR TWIN IS INCARNATED OR NOT) firstname.lastname@example.org
The Search for THE ONE! (and the current Twinflame Love hype)