The Inner attracts the Outer. Like attracts like.
If something in your outer world is not what you want it to be, look inside and shift how you feel about yourself or about that which you are not happy with. You will then automatically attract different people and experiences to you.
In essence at soul level we are pure energy and we all emit a certain frequency band and vibration. When we are truly cosmically tuned in then we will vibrate at the optimum frequency band of our soul. We will thus then attract those of our own soul group to us who also vibrate at that same optimum frequency band. Not only will those of our own soul group be attracted to you, but those who vibrate at the same frequency band.
It takes a while to start understanding, that when we allow other souls who are of a LOWER vibrational frequency or one those jams our frequency bands, that either they will make our frequency bands go haywire, with immense disruptions and disturbances and turbulence arising, or they will not be repelled at some stage.
When we see lack in any form, we have to understand that lack is only what we perceive deep inside of us. What is lacking deep inside? It is faith in yourself and your own ability? Is it lack of faith in the Divine to supply all your needs? Is it lack of shifting our awareness, of doing the inner work, to that our perceptions change and we get crystal clear about what we are not seeing or being or manifesting inside?
A lot of us had past lives as nuns, or monks, or part of organizations or religions where we were told that begging bowls would buy us our spirituality, or that is would buy us salvation. Some forsook all their material goods, in order to join religious cults etc. In this lifetime these souls will attract poverty consciousness to themselves, because the vows they took in those lifetimes, are still haunting them today. Until those vows of Poverty, Obedience, Chastity, etc. have been released, your inner self will reject all of that to come into your life in some form.
You can look at you yourself subconsciously broadcasting to the entire world out there what is inside of you. Like: “I hate myself. I am unworthy. I am ugly. I am stupid.” Guess what? You will attract those people into your life that will treat you like you treat yourself inside. Until you change your inner belief system, you will keep attracting that which you believe. If you believe that you are undeserving of good in your life that is what you will attract.
A very simple awareness of your inner talk – of self talk, will alert you to all of this. If you start monitoring your thoughts and feelings, and then just stop yourself in the middle of thinking negative thoughts and simply asking: “Is this the truth and the only truth?” will immediately stop that negative pattern from forming again.
This is one of the reasons that we can never skimp the inner housekeeping and clearing. Sometimes people think that they are so highly and lofty up the ascension ladder that this is not needed. Guess what, they will self sabotage themselves at some stage or another until this the simple housekeeping is adhered to every single day. Sometimes we hear what other people say and then start owning it – if this is negative we start believing this in fact quicker than if it is positive. That is the ego. The negative ego will always try to keep you small.
When the inner housekeeping is done, then our thinking patterns start changing, and our creativeness soars. We start believing in our own worthiness, our loving being, and we will start attracting likeminded souls to us, who see that in us and validate it.
When we love ourselves, we attract loving soul into our lives.
When we believe that we deserve abundance and start blessing money, and the energy of money, then we start attracting more money into our lives and abundance.
Think of yourself as a living magnet that magnetized all into your outer life what is INSIDE of you!
Do not send out negative energy and wait for a disaster to be magnetized towards you. Send out positive light and wait for a miracle to be drawn towards you.
What is it that you wish to attract more of into your life? Change your inner thinking, believing and viewing and you will magnetize that into your life.
If you wish to have that ultimate lover in your life, then love that inner you in such a way as you would like your ultimate lover to you love you. Be the best you can possible be, and then you will attract the best man there is to you, who matches you perfectly.
When you become aware of this wonderful law, our whole inner life starts changing, for we finally start realizing that we have to do the INNER work, before the outer life can manifest.
Have you ever had someone making a decision for you, without letting you know? When you were presented with the whole thing afterwards, was there not a measure of resentment, that you were never asked whether you wanted this or not in your life?
The Law of request, states that every soul has free will and choice. It is given a framework, or master plan to live in while on this planet called Earth. Therefore it has the freedom to do and to be, as it wills.
This is also the Law of Non-Interference with the free will of others.
I often get asked why the Intergalactic Fleet does not interfere with the earth – they may not contravene this basic law. If they are asked to this, with the free will and the full support of governments of the earth, then that is a different matter.
So often we see other people struggling, and then meaning well, try to help them, without them ASKING for it. When we do this, then we are loading karma onto ourselves, for what we thought of as helping, might actually have taken that souls right away to work through his or her problems or pain in their own way. If, and when they did need help, they would have asked for it.
The same law applies to the Angels, Archangels and Ascended Masters, even our guardian angels and higher guides – they may only assist us, if we ASK for them to help us.
I was highly amused once when I read about the Galactic Logos incurring karma, because he got impatient with the progress of one of those souls he was guiding. In trying to speed up the learning curve of his disciple, he interfered with that soul’s right to do things in their own time and at their own pace. So he had to work longer on his own soul’s mastering, because of breaking this basic law.
As the youngest in my own family, I had had this happen to me many times, where my older siblings just took decisions that affected me, without asking me. All that happened is that I felt resentment at not being asked, as I had my own ideas about this and thus never could make my own stance or opinion known to them. In the family hierarchy as the youngest, I had the least rights. As much as they might have meant well, the decision was not received with the open grace it would have received, if my own opinion or stance had been asked for.
There are times in life, especially in extreme times of danger when this law can be broken, for instance in a life and death situation. When your own life is in danger of course the Angels and Archangels will rush to your aid. You would do the same.
However, I have known a woman who wanted to commit suicide. A very well meaning man rescued her. Instead of being grateful she came very angry and resentful at having been deprived of her own decision that she wanted to leave life on this planet behind.
We all have things in our own lives that we have to work through ourselves. These are life and soul lessons that our souls need to master. Some people can take years to master even the simplest of lessons, but that does not mean that they are not progressing – it just means that that karmic lesson will be repeated over and over again, until they finally master it.
I am smiling for that same applies to people who are in love. Often times, those nearest and dearest to them can see that the person that they are infatuated with is just not right for them. Indeed, they can already see where the relationship would flounder. However, if one goes and tells this to the person, the person would a, resent it, and b, not believe it or c, think that you are jealous or that you feel that they are not deserving of happiness. It is only when the truth starts hitting home, that their eyes will open and most often this would happen when it they are ready for this – not one moment before the time.
If someone offers help and you accept it that is then a soul contract: – You are allowing the other person into our space, in order to bring about what should be an equal measure of giving and receiving. This law applies too for healing – you cannot just go and heal a person without their permission. In some cases, like emergencies, then again this does not apply, but remember this law when you are wishing to heal someone. If the person cannot answer for themselves, it is wise to ask your guardian angel to ask their guardian angel for permission to send healing energy.
I never do soul readings, without the soul’s permission to read their soul records. If I did, I would be violating this law.
The beauty of this law is that the moment that you ask for help and are ready to receive it – help will come. With the asking for assistance you are then open and ready to accept the wisdom that goes with it. The Higher Powers will then align themselves to assist you.
When you do ask for help, just take a moment to gather yourself, and ask yourself: “What is it I really want help with?” Then ask the Angels and Archangels to assist you. They are there waiting to help you at all times. All you have to do is ASK.
I personally love doing this and I ask them for all and everything that I need help with. They are there and love assisting. Yet, I am also careful with what I ask for, for not all things that I want is good for me. That is why it is wise to always add: “I ask for….. So that this can be resolved in the highest and best way, and for the highest good of all concerned…..”
In essence this law is teaching us to respect the divinity within each soul. For each soul has the right to live his or her life according their will. Even if you see those making mistakes, remember that you too, have had to learn some lessons in life the hard way. By banging one’s head against a brick wall and mastering a lesson, even when it hurts, is better than nursing resentment or anger at someone, because they tried without your permission to save you from that wall. This is especially true for parents.
Love is giving the other the freedom to make the mistakes that he or she needs to make, in order to master life in all its disguises. Yet, love is always there to help in the best possible way, when that someone asks for help. In that way the giving and receiving then is equal and not forced.
The inner world reflects in the outer.
What is inside will manifest on the outside.
What you are inside you will attract on the outside.
You literally live in the world which reflects your own inner world.
When you are peaceful, and content within, when you glow with love for yourself and others, and you love what you are doing and doing what you love, when you support yourself from deep within, cultivate beauty of soul and spirit,
then the outer world will manifest as peace, content, loving, supportive and beautiful.
When you are angry inside, even though you may have buried the anger so deeply that you are unaware or not conscious anymore of it, you will attract angry people into your life. They are mirroring the denied anger inside of you back at you.
If you have a deep sense of abandonment, which may might have happened even in another life and lifetime; people will reflect that back to you. They may leave you, or withdraw emotionally from you, or even die.
If you are constantly beating yourself up with your thoughts about yourself, you will attract people into your life who will reflect this back to you.
If you believe that the earth is filled with bad people, and all are conspiring against you – then this is what you will attract.
If you believe that you are poor and that you do not deserve prosperity, then you will reject all abundance and the flow of money coming into your life.
If you feel secure, deeply love yourself, honor your own sacred spaces, and are content and happy inside, you will attract people into your life who will match that. You inner integrity will be match by those around you.
When you do the inner work, and start delving deep inside of you and start leaving all those stuck emotional pain inside of you, you raise your own frequencies and vibrations so much, that you will literally attract a higher state of Being in the outer world and will start attracting like-minded souls who are on the same frequency band as yourself.
The Universe will always reflect back to yourself what you are like INSIDE. As within – so without.
This law also applies to our physical body. Inner feelings are reflected in the way we build our bodies.
If we feel emotionally or sexually vulnerable inside, we may build a protective layer of fat over our abdomen or hips, the places where we hold our emotions and sexuality.
Macho men with muscled chests are often hiding feelings of vulnerability, etc. You body is a mirror of your deep, often unconscious inner feelings.
If you have pain in any area of your body, for instance pain in your neck, ask yourself, “Who am I allowing to be a pain in the neck?” It is wise to instead of popping pills to ask your body what it is trying to tell you.
What or whom have you not made peace with? What can’t you swallow or digest? Who is causing you heartache? What anger or pent-up feelings are clogging your arteries or hardening your cells? Pain the chest: “Who am I allowing to hurt me?” Stiff joints: “How can I change my attitude going forward?’
Life in the amazing school on Earth gives us constant opportunities to learn about ourselves. Your animals will reflect your inner qualities back to you. What are your animals like? What qualities do they have?
When we laughingly say that someone is just like his dog, little do we realize how true this is. The person, who appears to be very pleasant and calm, yet has an animal which is aggressive and nasty, is not expressing his underlying angry feelings.
The Law is very simple and exact.
The Higher Beings who have you in their charge cause the material objects in your life to alter according to your own inner state. Leaky taps, roofs, radiators in your external life reveal leaky emotions within, while raging fires outside reflect the burning issues within.
We have to start clearing up our inner selves, inside and out and do more and more inner clearing and collapsing work, in order to bring about the changes in our physical lives.
When we understand that this law then moves in harmony with the first law, as above so below, then we understand that when we do the inner clearing and releasing work, that we then change the outer world. WE ARE LITERALLY THE CHANGE WE WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD. That is how powerful we in truth are.
When you raise your own consciousness, you will raise the consciousness of your whole outside world, that world which is reflected back at you.
What you reject inside will reject you on the outside.
If you wish to change society or others, then first start with yourself.
The Universe arranges itself to what you believe.
Therefore we constantly have to monitor ourselves and our own inner world. Start to bless pain in your life, because pain is showing up those parts deep inside yourself which need to be healed and made whole. Start to bless challenges in your life, for it is showing you where you need to work on yourself and where your own Achilles’ heels lie, so that you can work out your inner muscles and strengthen them.
It took me years to even start grasping this basic law. I was just thinking this morning about growing up as a child with parents who believed in lack. So I started to believe in lack too and I started to resent money. I was brought up that as soon as I was able I would have to have a job and earn money and support myself. But with the negative programming I had picked up, I hated going into a bank. My relationship with money was then one of fear and anger.
It was only when I had not a cent to my name, and any job or support that I suddenly realized that I had to do some major inner clearing work here. I was shown that money is energy, just like anything else. It has no positive or negative charge. It was my own inner emotions and the emotional charge that I put onto this energy which was creating exactly that which I feared most in my life. With it also then the great feeling of abandonment. This from past lives.
Well, I had to literally reprogram myself and my own inner believes. I was told to bless my purse, my bank accounts, all the money flowing into and out of my life and to start charging for services – because of my own energy that I put into this and because I then charge is with positive energy. I started in truth to own my own worth and started to understand, that my inner world reflected in the outer.
As I started working through feelings of abandonment – I first had to go back to the lifetime where I felt most abandoned and then find the link into this lifetime, which was at the time I was a baby, and my mother was in hospital for a few months, and I had to be taken care of my dad, grandmother and siblings. When I went back and delved deeply into those wounds and opened them up, and released the entire puss inside, and became grateful for what had happened, and saw how that served me, then I could heal.
Interestingly when I changed my own inner seeing and believing and feelings, the outer started to change positively and I have moved light-years beyond what I was and experienced just a mere three years ago.
If there is one single cosmic law that the whole planet and its entire people need to master it is this one. When we cease to want to constantly change the whole world, and change ourselves – the whole world changes. Such is cosmic law.
As within – so without.
Photos: Jean-Luc Bozzoli and Josephine Wall.
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Cosmic Law 1: As above – so below.
Cosmic laws are spiritual and soul laws, which apply all over the cosmos and there are 33 basic laws, which apply to all souls, ad infinitum.
It is only when we violate these basic laws, that we incur pain and the karmic laws starting to come into operation.
LAW 1: As Above – so below.
What happens in the macrocosm happens in the microcosm for all is ONE and the SAME.
The Divine created magnificent patterns and blueprints for all of creation. Your own soul is part of a greater soul group, who in turn form part of a cluster of soul groups, which then are as ONE massive macrocosm of life expressing all aspects, character traits of the Divine and all it created back to Itself.
Therefore nothing is at random – but all is perfectly synchronized to form a great cosmic whole. There is not one minute particle of life that is not perfectly designed and created to fit into the great whole.
All is designed to form one huge macrocosm, which is all one and the same. Thus what is created within this macrocosm has been reflected in the microcosm of the Milky Way Galaxy, our Solar System, our planet, and all our 12 bodies.
We ARE All-that-is and All-that-is is us.
You ARE that: I AM THAT I AM, for you reflect that in all that you are. There is not one single iota or nuance or whisper of yourself which is not reflected in the macrocosm, as not one single iota or nuance or whisper or vastness of macrocosm is not reflected in you.
We can never be separated from the macrocosm or the DIVINE, for WE ARE the macrocosm. We ARE all of creation. Creation breathes through us and experiences life through us.
Therefore, your soul group has a Divine blueprint of vibrational frequency pattern which is uniquely its own. As your soul is part and particle of this Divine Blueprint, you have your very own Soul Divine Blueprint, and pattern, frequency band, and soul expression, tonal chord and soul colors. Your soul then is a micro energy field, within the cosmic energy field, and therefore vibrates at the frequency of the tonal chord, which in turn forms a part of harmonic frequencies of the Divine, which is in reality the same symphony of sound, which is the music of spheres.
The Divine therefore holds that soul Blueprint, that perfect creation of you, as a picture in its mind. That is the real essence of you.
It holds this Divine and perfect vision and frequency band of you within itself, no matter what you do. This is the perfection of macrocosm, which holds all of you within itself.
When we are on this planet, we forget all of this, and because of the conditioning and the false indoctrination of the educational systems, we forget all of this, and a huge sense of separateness takes hold: – the feelings of loneliness, abandonment, of not being good enough, even as if there is something dreadfully wrong with us. This is a lie.
Your soul is but incarnated to experience all of this and to remember the TRUTH of you. When you start remembering your own soul truth and who you are at deep and profound soul level, then the remembering returns, for with the remembering come the deep re=connection to your soul group and to the greater cosmic whole, where you can never to lost, cannot be alone, nor abandoned. YOU ARE THE GREATER WHOLE AND THE GREATER WHOLE IS YOU!
The Divine and the macrocosm wait without judgment as we experience and learn during our life on earth. When we are ready it opens up new portals within us, so that we start remembering and re-connection deep inside of us.
When you start remembering, your heart and soul open up, and a deep sense of belonging, of being part and particle of a much greater cosmic whole emerges and you start assuming COSMIC citizenship – which has been yours all along.
As you start remembering, you start acting, living, and being from the depths of your heart and soul. You start doing what you love, and love what you are doing. You are so filled with love from deep within, and your neediness vanishes and completion and wholeness assumes. Therefore you can love and be in overflowing and rejoice in each moment of being alive and well and on planet earth.
When challenges come, you will take that as great lessons to master, those lessons which will reflect an aspect of life back to the Divine, and will assist your soul evolution. Instead of resenting challenges you will embrace them as great learning curves, for in obtaining mastery; you can assist the whole of life to master that aspect too, and with it comes empathy and compassion for all living things.
When the realization dawns that you are part of the macrocosm, and part of the Planet Earth herself, for she IS you, then you realize you are standing on holy and sanctified ground. You ARE part and particle of EVERY SINGLE micro organism on this planet, and the macro organism, you are part of every single plant, animal and every form of life on this planet and beyond all of that.
When you harm one single iota of life on this planet – in any form – you are harming yourself.
It brings a deep and profound respect for life, for other human beings, for cosmic beings, for all forms of life – for all forms and expressions of life are YOU.
Therefore this is the most important law to grasp and understand.
Dis-ease, dis-comfort, dis-harmony, dis-cord, all reflect being out of synch, or not in higher alignment with the greater cosmic whole.
When you create within the greater cosmic macrocosm of WHOLENESS, then you cannot create anything that is not in higher alignment with your own being and that of the Divine, for then you create discordance, and dis-ease in YOURSELF.
Therefore this is the first law to understand – and therefore is the master Key to all of life and the understanding there-of.
Originally posted on judithkusel:
Planet Earth is known as one of the harshest schools in existence for soul growth, and before we are born our soul CHOSES to have certain challenges etc. so that it can experience pain etc. and then GROW in consciousness. For the more our soul is put under pressure here, the more it contributes to our SOUL GROWTH and MOVING UP IN CONSCIOUSNESS or DIMENSIONAL states of Being – once we return to our TRUE SOUL STATE of existence and are reunited with all our other soul parts – which are in service elsewhere.
When the Higher Ranking Masters who watch over the Rebirthing process of this planet and our Universe, sense our intent, they will first ask our soul’s permission to put us through INITIATIONS – this is to purify our souls and our intentions – as we can only rise into higher frequency bands, when the heavier stuff that is pulling us down, or holding us back have been released and dissolved.
Eye meets eye…
Soul recognizes soul…
And the eternal dance of Love is re-ignited and has come from eternity….
I have written various articles on Twin-flames on this blog, and I get letters from all over the world asking me questions regarding their twin flames, as slowly realization is dawning, that meeting the Twin Flame might be like meeting to other half or yourself, but brings with it its own challenges.
I am writing this today because of three letters I got where the person has met the Twin flame (or presumes this – for often soul mates are confused with Twin flames, or the infatuation is such that one believes this person to be a twin, when it is not so), and then finds that the sex might be great, and the communication too, but the reality is that twin is not free or cannot be fully present in the relationship, or is behaving in a manner which is causing pain.
Sometimes patterns which were created over many lifetimes come to haunt them in this life, and unless those are released and new ones’ created, the same old destructive patterns will repeat themselves. For not all were angels in previous lives – indeed some were anything but. (That is why I love doing soul readings, for it will pinpoint where the pattern started, and how it is busy being repeated in this lifetime).
All relationships on this planet, cannot be based just on sex – however great the sex is: – at the beginning you cannot take the hands off each other and then later wonder how to get the spark going again, as reality starts dawning. For after the infatuation wears off and the sex, one still has to put up with the habits of the partner which irritates the living daylights out of one, or with the ex spouse, children, and everyone else who was there before the two met, and after the two met: – the ex’s don’t just disappear, nor the children, nor the parents, nor the friends and families. When chaos was created, it will remain chaos until order is restored, and balance.
Any relationship has great hidden lessons, and the greatest lesson of all, is more applicable for Twin flames that mirror each other more than any other, is that of CHALLENGE. Yes, it is a challenge to love oneself totally, utterly and completely – warts and all, shadow and light without a mask to hind behind: – and love another warts and all, shadow and light without a mask that they can hide behind.
I had a very interesting chat to one of my friends who is a marriage counselor. He pointed out that he counsels couples BEFORE they get married, and deals with each partner separately. He said that he can immediately spot where the two will have big challenges in their married life, as they differ completely in the way they handle and live their lives.
In this instance, the twin then might be a part of your own soul, but the lighter you are, the darker he will be – the more of a perfectionist you are – the more laid-back he will be. You might be brilliant with money matters and a billionaire, and she has not sense of money and spends all etc.
In Afrikaans they have a lovely term to name this: “die klein jakkalsies” (the little jackals – become big jackals). In the beginning when one cannot take the hands off each other, one is so sexually charged, and adrenalin junkies, that those little jackals are not noted – like him squeezing the toothpaste in the middle, while you neatly roll it up. He leaves his clothes all over the place, and you neatly have yours all labeled and boxed. You are happy-go-lucky and he dissects all and everything. You love all that you can love just as they are, and he goes and wants to label everything in his mind, and then label you too – like putting you in his laboratory and then making sure you react exactly as he tells you too…
To me this is the trump card: THE JOKER.
The Joker is the trickster and in as much as the twins can’t keep their hands off each other and their minds too (most of the times with women, and with men with their neatly boxed mind, that is when he is not fully busy somewhere else which might be about once a day – unless he is thinking of sex he he! He has a box in his mind neatly labeled with your name (and others) written on it. When he has finished the box he is currently busy with, and wants to take out the next, he might consider yours)
The Joker and trickster appear to teach us a beautiful lesson: YOU CAN NOT MAKE ANYONE HAPPY NOR FULFILL THEM. It is impossible – even if it is your twin flame.
So there you are having this amazing sex, and you are having orgasms and what not, and he just jumps out of bed, into his clothes and off he goes home to this wife (or to his laptop and work)– after all he has commitments and obligations there, for even as much as he loves you, he loves his job, kids too and his wife (even if he says he hates her, he does care for her in his own way). The fact is that his way of earning a living takes priority, even over you. You will never be number one on his list.
You think to yourself: “Have I not satisfied him? Have I been too much or too little?” And beat yourself up.
And the Joker sits there and has a good laugh……
The fact is that he cannot make you happy, just like he could not make his wife happy, just like he could not make anyone happy. He is not God.
The fact is that only you can make yourself happy, and decide to be happy and do the inner work necessary to love yourself so much, that whether he is in your life – or not – makes no difference. If he is there, you do not attach to him so much, that you are miserable when he is gone. For as much as you love having him there – as much you love having yourself to yourself and enjoy your own company. So if he suddenly disappears with floozie next door, then you are not in a state of trauma, but can merrily carry on without him (see how fast that brings him back).
A lot of people have this constant NEEDINESS. As long as you feel needy, and whine about have little he/she loves you, the needier you will become.
Nobody likes to have a needy person around, for at some time or another the other will get fed-up and walk out.
We are not meant to be needy persons. We are not meant to beg for love or attention, and neither are we meant to be doormats and have others walking all over us and wiping their feet on us. Nobody respects a needy person and definitely not doormats.
The more empowered you become from deep inside, and the more you love yourself and nurture that depth of soul and joyful beingness inside of you, the less needy you become. The more you enjoy your own company, and love conversing with your soul, and nurture yourself, body, mind, spirit and soul, the less you need someone else to make you happy.
That does not mean that you do not wish to be a relationship. It is just that you are so content with yourself that you can love another freely without trying to own him or her, or to manipulate, or control or whine with neediness and constant begging to be loved.
There is something immensely attractive and sexy about a woman who is empowered from deep within – and the same goes with a man.
They emit a radiance, and inner state of balance and equilibrium which shines through. They do not need to be perfect nor beautiful in the sense the world sees it, but when they enter a room they have a presence, which makes everyone notice them. That is because they are empowered from deep within. They have done the inner work, they have come to love themselves totally and unconditionally and then, when they do meet up with someone (note: someone – not necessarily the twin) they love wholeheartedly, without attaching. That means they love so much, that when that someone is taken away from them tomorrow, that love will still be there – wholeheartedly, even if the person has moved on.
Why? Because they know that love is eternally there. Love has been there ad infinitum. It does not matter how the person is behaving, or not behaving, doing or not doing in this life – you love that soul – no matter what, just like you love yourself – no matter what.
You love because that is the state that you are constantly in.
That state is not affected by anyone else – for you are solely in control of that state. That is your heart domain, and you cannot always choose the circumstances, or what happens, but you can choose your RE-ACTIONS to that.
When you move back into your heart and soul, then you will understand that one cannot let the inner working lasp For you have a lot of emotional stuff to work through and let go, and even if you switch partners like shoes, that emotional baggage will still be there, if you do not let go of it. Some people take all the baggage from one relationship into the next and the next and the next – the same old patterns. The switching of partners does not resolve that baggage, indeed it gets worse – then they end up blaming their partners for their own inner unhappiness, when in reality they have not healed inside.
So, remember, that with the Twin flame, all the baggage will get amplified, because the Twin will mirror back to you everything that you have not owned, nor made peace with deep within YOURSELF.
No one can skip the inner work. You can try, but it will come in the form of the Joker, until you finally understand and master the lesson.
That is the reality of life.
Yes, the twin can and does bring ecstasy, bliss and euphoria, but he or she will also bring that inner work that needs to be done – bang slap to your own heart, and there will be a big label on it that reads: “INNER HOUSEKEEPING AND CLEARING TO BE DONE!”
(Judith Kusel http://www.judith-kusel.com)